ive bin with him before n i still love him he had a girlfriend n he still likes her he started gettin over her n liked me but then one mornin we were all cuddled n had a few kiises then on the night he went to the party n was kissin wid her all night what do i do because i got realli jealous and went mad at him for it and now he wont even tlk to me n picked her HELP ME i still realli love him n dnt no what to say ........
2007-07-08 03:19:13 · 15 answers · asked by ema louise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One word......"threesome"
2007-07-08 03:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Enoch Returns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the sleeping dog lie my friend, why on earth would you want to be with a guy who can cheat so easily on his g/f with you in the first place?
You need to back off and accept the fact that he's with someone else and is simply using you when he feels like it.
He's having the best of both worlds, he's got an unsuspecting g/f who i actually feel sorry for by the way, and then there's you, whose more than happy to get it on with him behind her back and then have the nerve to complain when he spends all night with his g/f!
He's picked her so get over yourself and leave them to it and find yourself someone whose available to be with you 24-7 not when the mood takes him!
2007-07-08 10:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dont listen to the idiots on here who are being mean. Sending you a hug first. It sounds like this guy is being a bit selfish to you but dont worry it will all come crashing down on him. A guy like that always comes unstuck. The best thing you can do is to ignore him and hope he comes back to you. Don't chase him or have a go at him it will only make things worse. If he wants you he will find you again. I know it is hard hun but try and stay calm. He will probably get sick of her and start thinking about you soon. x
2007-07-08 11:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ain't nuttin to say, he's gonna play.
Listen I know you don't want to hear this right now, but
there are a million other guys out there. Any situation
that is painfully murky, is a NO GO. keep on steppin and
step quick. Somebody is waiting for you, and it does NOT
appear to be this guy.
2007-07-08 10:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, this guy obviously is selfish and not considering anyone's feelings but his own. I say move on and raise the bar higher for yourself. In the long run, you will come out ahead. Good luck.
2007-07-08 10:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Rogue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok try to use spell check because its hard to understand what you are trying to say... but ...if he is choosing her then you have to let it go... He might not share the feelings that you do.. and you can force him either... he is going to do what he wants to do.. so i think that you should just move on.. and get over it... you can find someone better that will treat you right and not like a piece of meat.
2007-07-08 10:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can say. You made him choose by being jealous without having a commitment with him, and now he has chosen. Live with it. Next time realize that just because you kiss and cuddle with a guy, doesn't mean he's yours. Unless you have the "talk" with him about being committed and not seeing other people, then he's free to do whatever he wants to do.
2007-07-08 10:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hope u r ok he jst needs to stay away and spend more time with u if u love him u should stay with him bt u carnt help hu u fall 4 i have gt the same problem hope u saught it out i have moved al the way to manchester so i could saught me head out
2007-07-08 10:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him how u feel and see if he will talk to u and say that i love u and i cant get over u and i want u back
2007-07-08 10:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by missbossyeve 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is so messing u about just go and find someone else to show him u can be happy with other people and not just him
2007-07-08 11:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a real guy not this fraud he just wants you to give him sex when he wants it on his own terms.
2007-07-08 10:25:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋