Yeah, get out. YOu and this girl sound like you're worlds apart. I can't see this one working. You're wasting your and her time.
2007-07-08 03:45:27
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Well you state that she is your fiance so you have probably been dating for awhile, why is it bothering you now when it hasn't stopped you in the past?
She can always take the body jewelery out for you but apparently it does give her more sensation then without it but it is also very dangerous for infections.
It's her body so she has the right to pierce it if she wants. It's not hurting you any so why now are you bringing it up?
If you break up with her over such a trivial thing then your not ready to get married.
Marriage is not about things like body piercing or tattoos, it's a commitment to someone who you want to spend your life with and it has a much deeper meaning then petty little things like this.
2007-07-08 10:57:51
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answered by unknown friend 7
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Well if you really love her you should respect her for what she wants to do with her body. If you really can't take it since she is now your fiance and you feel you can't spend the rest of your life looking at her genital piercing or just knowing it is there, then tell her politely. She may reconsider taking it out, remember - piercings aren't permanent unlike tattoos. Heck, even tattoos can be removed if you have the time, money and patience to seek laser removal.
2007-07-08 10:46:31
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answered by bronzedgal 4
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Think of it like this, It's your FIANCE you shouldn't split up over something so small. Also it helps stimulate sex. If you can't please her then this could help, not to offend or anything. Just think of it like this, marriage is 90% spiritual and 20% pshysical. It should be more about who she is and not her piercings. It's an EZ thing to accept when you think about it.
2007-07-08 10:50:15
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answered by Reagus 2
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You just found out about it and she's your fiance? Seems to me you don't know eachother too well. Maybe you shouldn't be together at all if you can't even talk about your likes and dislikes. While you were dating it should have come up, if you're so against it.
2007-07-08 10:47:05
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answered by Anonymous
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tell her it's a turn off and maybe she'll remove it, but if you're thinking of getting out and moving on over a piercing maybe the real issue at hand is doubting whether or not you want to marry her
2007-07-08 10:46:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Do you really like this girl? Sounds like your looking for excuse to end the relationship. You need to think about what's really bothering you about her and talk to her, maybe she got the piercing for attention?!
2007-07-08 10:54:41
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answered by DEEJAY 5
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alot of people have that.. i think that if she wants to get it let her.. it is her body...plus it is a piercing... it can be taken out.. it is not like she is tattooing your name on her butt... dont stress it... try it out and see if you can grow to like it... if you are going to break up with her because of that then you must not love her as much as you think..
2007-07-08 10:45:23
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answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6
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put it this way, it is her body, if she wants to have it let it be, don't try controlling her because that is not going to solve anything. If you like and love her trust me LET IT GO :) Good luck
2007-07-08 10:46:58
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answered by Danijela K 2
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maybe she was trying to recapture her youth, not that 25 is old, but still. it seems rebelious
2007-07-08 10:45:16
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answered by eb 5
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