2007-07-08 03:15:57 · 18 answers · asked by Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my, my, my, my, my. What can I say? No, it's not wrong, but I have lived in Korea on/off for 5+ years now, and let me tell you, some Korean men have parents who are hell-bent on their sons only marrying Korean girls. I am white and I had my heart ripped out by a Korean man who in the end, decided not to marry me because of his family. I almsot reached the point of suicide, and I am just now getting over him. I finally met a new Korean guy. He's the first guy I have been so attracted and drawn to since my ex. We have been flirting for 2 months, and when he finally knew how much I liked him, he told me he's had a girlfriend for the past week. This of course after another guy blurted it out that he has a girlfriend. He wan't going to tell me. Know this. many Korean guys will cheat on their wives with hookers, and it is culturally accepted here. Many of them see 2 girls at a time, too. I am not saying they are all like this, but know what you are getting into. I have also never seen a Korean guy with a black girl in all my years here. Be careful. Also, know this. Many Koreans still don't like or accept black people, and I live in Seoul. It's a big city, but still has many aspects reminiscent of 1950s America. Blacks are looke ddown upon so much here. Most schools won't hire them to teach English and a Korean girl I know has a tan, and she got asked by some kid if she is from Afirca. The whiter ypur skin is here, the better.
2007-07-08 03:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by So adorable 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY. Race should never ever matter, especially if there are two different people that love each other. The only thing that may be a bothersome to an African girl marrying a Korean guy is possibly religion. Religion has a lot of regulations and expections when it comes to the "love" category, but I'm not to sure about the background of Korean or African religion, so I wouldn't know. But for other cultures, I know it's a huge issue in an individuals' life about who they should marry, what kind of person she/he has to be, appearance, and physical features. And this is all pressured due to religion and of coarse, parents. However, I don't think the color of you're skin should stop you marrying another individual that has a different skin color than you, because love is love, and nothing should be able to stop two people that love each other and want to progress into marriage. It would be saying, would it be right if a white person, marries an asian person? No it wouldn't, and that's why we see so many halfer kids.
2007-07-08 03:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by EL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible! There are so many interracial relationships these days! Parents are a little more open minded because i know Koreans who marry other races, but, they still prefer the pure bloodline. But you want to marry a Korean girl just because you met one online haha? But yeah, it's possible. But it would be hard because of the parents of the Korean girl.
2016-04-01 03:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mixed racial marriages are right for some people.
If you have a good relationship and if you know you may find some people resist your interracial relationship and have discussed all the pros and cons, then it should be fine.
You have to know what you might be up against.
Some people will be accepting and some will not.
Some children will be cruel to children you have.
You have to have a lot of inner strength to be in an interracial marriage. That's the key to success.
2007-07-08 03:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!! Just because they are different nationalities does not mean they can't marry. Any 2 people can marry if they love each other enough.
2007-07-08 03:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dean Winchester 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?? It's 2007!!! Of course it's not wrong.
I hope you're not part of the scenario here because if you are, you shouldn't be getting married to anyone.
2007-07-08 03:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it's wrong for you to do it. Obviously if you are asking this question, then you have a problem with it, so don't do it because it will just get in the way.
2007-07-08 03:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love has no color its all about love if the love is there thats all you need go get married dont care about what other pepole have to say live your life the way you want
2007-07-08 03:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by mirendaocasio@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's so wrong with it, ive always heard that love is blind, and if you're in love, does it matter?
2007-07-08 03:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong if you love him follow your heart don't care what other people say its alright you love him don't let anyone stop that
2007-07-08 03:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋