I've met this guy on the internet through a good friend. He seems like a really nice bloke who is after EXACTLY the same as me. Someone to go out with, and do things with but also have the sexual relationship. I have never had sex before but it's not really a big deal to me , all this ''first time'' nonsense. He wants to meet up with me and go to the cinema and then for a drink, do you think I should just go ahead with it? cos I do want to, but I am also very wary of guys who I meet on the internet, I mean I've seen photos and stuff, but I know you can never be sure. We've arranged to meet in a public place etc, but what do you think I should do? And what do you think about the sex thing? I mean I'd only do it if I really liked him tho.
oh yeh, I'm 18 and he's 20. do you think he's being genuine? he's admitted he doesnt really like the fact I'm a virgin but he's sayin it's not put him off and he's still interested.
2007-07-08 05:34:00 · 2 answers · asked by RLJ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the Internet can sometimes blind you to a simple truth, no matter how much you've e-mailed him, or that you know him through a friend, he's still a stranger! I know you think you know everything about him but you probably don't. think about the friends you've known for years who still surprise you with some deep secret. if that hasn't happened yet, it will, trust me! so treat him like you would any guy you just met or got set up with on a blind date, have fun but go into it with your eyes open. meet at public places, don't put yourself in a situation that feels even slightly dangerous (go with you instincts), you know the rest don't ya?
as for the sex, remember this important piece of advice, if it seems like a good idea today, it will still be good a week from now, or even a month. especially a month. your hormones are probably raging and you just want to get it on right away, but its always best to wait awhile. trust me, I'm a guy and all of us can appear completely normal on a first date, a second, or even a fifth date. but after awhile his true nature will show itself. so date, be careful and wait. and good luck!
PS if I were dad I'd say there's nothing wrong with waiting 'till your honeymoon to loose your virginity! just thought I'd put that out there.
2007-07-08 08:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. 210 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Internet dating is not an exactly good thing to do because as you said your 'wary about the guys on the internet' so I would say don't go but it's up to you and have you seen that guys photo yet??
2007-07-08 08:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ben's Snake Pit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋