me and my boyfriend broke up about 5 days ago. we lived together and were together for like 7 months. we startd fighting at the end of the relationship so we broke up. we really were not happy with ourselves. we went to the park on friday and we acted like we were together, hugging, kissing, all the goodness. but now he wont talk to me. he seems to make excuses up for what he is doing and its like shady. how do i get him back or how do i get over him. its so hard!!
2007-07-08 05:20:13 · 5 answers · asked by Kelsey L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i want to forget about him. it hurts
2007-07-08 05:29:06 · update #1
hi hon... sorry for your break up and apparent pain.
he will come back if he wants to... at such time, you could have a discussion about what it is you both want. ask him to be truthful if the time comes...... you don't want to be with someone who deep down, might not want to be involved in a relationship right now.
how to get over him? this sort of thing takes time (it took two YEARS for me last break up). you can involve yourself in a lot of different things in your spare time, in order to keep your mind busy -- a hobby, the gym or swiming activities, take a class (karate? pottery? what are your interests?). involving yourself with other people, in a social setting can be of help.
spending time with friends (lunch, getting together for a cook out, shopping), and family.
meanwhile, dont' forget to pamper yourself... what about a nice bubble bath, or lighting some candles and listening to your favorite music? read... go to the library.... buy something (even if it's small) you might want....
take care of YOU. i hope you will do well, and that things work out well in your life! xo
2007-07-08 05:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 19:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by sedlay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The food we are addicted to will be hard to be forgotten and will tempt us in our sickness when we are forbidden to take it.
Lady your boy friend also must be feeling like you. but keep patience. the love has many phases and many faces.
you have to check on him . may be he will try to reconcile with you. then you will be more deeper in love with him.
but if he starts to see other girl then thank god he fought with you and left you.
Life is so vast some one else more mature witll be his way to your home.
in any case thank heaven , every day new situations will test your strength.
2007-07-08 05:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jhentee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to stop acting like your to gether and then wait it out.
it sucks but it's all i know how to do (if you want to get over him) but if you want him still yuor going to have to talk to him and sor things out.
2007-07-08 05:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to answer the question of if you want to get him back or if you want to forget about him.
2007-07-08 05:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋