I'm 26, about 5'10, brown hair, green eyes, 145lbs. I'm very shy but when you get to know me I am very warm and honest. I am in my situation at my own will, I am trying to wait until marriage before I have sex. I am starting to worry that it is too late to find a girl like myself. I'm looking for advice, do I keep looking or is it time to throw in the towel on that dream? Be honest please.
2007-07-08 07:45:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are on the right track. Best place to find one person that meets your needs would be at a conservative fundamental church, such as Baptist, Assembly of God etc. These are churches that encourage their young girls to save their virginity until marriage. Along with that they usually have very high standards and few bad habits. I would assume that is what you are looking for. Guess what, they are looking for you. WOW
2007-07-08 07:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by glenn t 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't you dare lose your confidence, sir! I'm 19 and I don't do those things BECAUSE I'm in college and, frankly, there are more important things to worry about in life. I also caution you on "preying on the younger girls" because that is precisely the thing you should not do. Take it from me. Don't even phrase a sentence like that, honestly. It doesn't make you look very friendly. Just remember that 26, whether you believe it or not, is still very young. 40 years old is the prime of someone's life. You have such a long way to go, so there is no reason to give up hope. Take virginity out of the picture because, initially, it doesn't matter a bit. Find value in yourself as a human being, not as a sexual partner. Once you are happy as an individual, people will flock to your positivity. It's a proven fact that happy people will be more attractive than sad ones. Never give up. Hope I helped. :)
2016-04-01 03:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that all depends but it sounds like you're a virgin. Any girl who's 26 and still a virgin is probably saving herself for marriage. I know i am, i am 20 and believe me have had plenty of opportunities however i am saving myself for the right guy once i'm married. I often wonder myself if i'll even be able to find a guy who's a keeper who's also a virgin! I get discouraged since this cuts out like 99 percent of my dating options. So yeah it is hard but def worth it in the end you'll be glad you waited!! So stay strong. Yes there are others like us out there lol, just few and far between!!
good luck!!
2007-07-08 08:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by sunshinegirl802 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in just because you're "loosing hope." The chances of finding a virgin at that age are probably slim, but if you're at all religious or go to church, get involved in church activities and I'm sure you'll find a girl. I'm not trying to be stereotypical, but it seems that more virgins tend to have some sort of faith that guides them to stay a virgin until marriage. The more women you meet, the better the chances of finding one. So get out there and mingle. Good Luck
2007-07-08 07:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17 and a virgin and like you, I'm going to remain a virgin till I get married! I've not even been kissed before! It's the right thing to do ok? I know very few people out there are still virgins but all of my friends are! both guys and girls! so you're not the only one!
what's your religion if I may ask? Keep looking! all the best!
2007-07-08 07:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely should keep looking!! Just because alot of singles don't acquire the same morals as you, nowadays, doesn't mean someone isn't out there for you. You can also try single groups that might be in your area that involve the same persons. Or I am pretty sure their is online dating sites with interest like yours. Or maybe you can find a lucky gal in your church. Just be careful when it comes to online dating sites. I think this is wonderful you made the decision to save yourself before marriage. I just wish I did the same. LOL
HOPE I COULD HELP!! HAVE A FAB WEEK!!
2007-07-08 07:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by med_studentAKA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are out there. Just like the men that want to wait til they are married, some women do to. Try meeting a girl at church or something along those lines. Me personally. I want a girl that knows what she is doing. Not a slut, but not a girl that will just lay there either. It's like buying a house. would you rather use a agent that has been around and know the market inside out or a brand new rookie new to the area, lol.
2007-07-08 07:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by golsen2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, if you are asking if there are still virgins out there, of course there are. i am not sure why this is your dream. you want an honest opinion? well, i think you are placing too much weight on an arbitrary representation of purity created by society. i am troubled that you don't mention any other qualities of your dream wife. and it seems sad to me that so many worthwhile, good and noble women will automatically be axed from your list based on one act, to the exclusion of all other qualities. and yet, you know everyone will have, flaws, sins, experiences that are less than ideal--they do not dominate as much as her sexuality.
and i have no problem witth you choosing to wait--great. but i do not feel so comfortable with the implied judgmentalism of others' choices. good luck.
2007-07-08 08:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by quiet 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey I'm 21 and I'm still a virgin. There are actually a lot of girls like myself. Some of us are choosing to wait. Don't get discouraged, there are girls out there, I know tons. I'm not at all ugly either, I just choose to wait for the right one. Drop me a line ;) .
2007-07-08 07:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its never too late to find something ur looking for as long as its for the right reasons-but to say you ONLY want to marry a virgin seems kinda-shallow! just because someone isnt a virgin doesnt meen they arent the right person for you because you are... try to keep an open mind! good luck
2007-07-08 09:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋