Okay well I asked this last night but i didnt get many answers at all. So I kindof wanted to ask it again. Anyways Im 15 almost 16 female. And almost every night I have a sex dream of random guys that I barely know or like my friends boyfriend. witch is really weird. I have a bf myself and weve been best friends since grade 1. We started dating when we were 12.
And I never have these dreams of him just random guys. and I love my boyfriend and id never cheat on him. Lol Its really weird and i have no idea whats going on. Ive been having these dreams for like almost every ningh for the past 4 months.
soon as I wake up in like really hornnny. witch is really weird.
Whats going on?!? What do i do? Is it normal?
2007-07-08 08:32:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your subconscious is telling you to start exploring relationships with other guys. There is no reason you should be stuck with one guy at your age.
When I was your age I had 5 boyfriends. I didn't have sex with any of them! It was just natural to have a lot of friends, many of them guys.
If you do start having sex it's just a natural part of life, BUT, make sure to have protection!!!! the last thing you want at your age is to get pregnant or catch a disease!!
2007-07-08 08:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah who knos, maybe its just hormonal irregularities, but it shouldn't be going on for 4 months. It can also be that its ur body thats reacting to him, but not ur mind. Its like this. I guess u can take me for example. I have a gf. I love her very much. I never cheated on her at all. I only kiss her, take her everywhere, and spend hours with her alone. Yet, i still get horny if i c a hot girl, even tho i swore my life to her already. It's just natural instincts, something u just cant control. I think rite now, what ur body is saying that it thinks that ur friend's bf is a good mate, and therefore, resonds by getting horny dreams at night. Its ok, i get plenty of those too. ;-) dont wry, as long as you dont listen to it, nothing bad should happen, its only a minor discomfort. it gets really annoying at sometimes too. =P
2007-07-08 08:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by blizzardalchemist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means your a normal teen. Your going through puberty, and nothing is more normal, trust me! Its a fact that teenage boys think about sex like every 10 seconds or something. Don't worry - your as normal as anyone can be!! =] x
2016-05-17 03:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why your dreams are with random people and not him could be because you've seen your bf for soooo many years it's almost like a brother so your subconscious doesn't dream of him. So it instead dreams of people you hardly met.
It's perfectly normal. Dreams don't always mean exactly what they are.
That's my guess....
2007-07-08 08:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by lw4h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal. Your brain is experimenting with other guys while your heart stays true to your boyfriend. You will probably fantasize about other guys your whole life. No need tell your boyfriend, he is having the same dreams about random girls. It is fantasy, so no worries.
2007-07-08 08:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by harleychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its ok to have these dreams your mind is just racing through things its normal every 15 yr old probably had em its just puberty.
2007-07-08 08:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by KERRI AKA KNIGHT RIDER GIRL RWF4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, it's just you hormones working, nothing wrong in dreaming about other guys, besides, you can't control what you dream about.
I'd just let those dreams happen. you don't have to tell anyone about them. when you get to be my age, you will welcome them because they may be all that you have in the line of sex, unless you're happily married with a good sex life.
luckily, I do have a very healthy sex life with my boyfriend.
2007-07-08 08:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by chercinbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its something in ur subconcious, that u need to confront. Mayb its someting in these other guys that turn u on that ur boyfren doesnt hav. So tink about it carefully and sex b4 marraige is a sin ne wayz.
2007-07-08 08:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by slimredz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax!! Yes, you are normal!! It's called "Raging Hormones"!! They're great dreams because they're exciting & fun, without the risk of pregnancy!! Sweet Dreams!!!!!
2007-07-08 08:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by M. Rod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of growing-up. Nothing to worry about. We 'adults' went thru that as well. Enjoy the dream while it's still coming strong. One day, all you dream about is how to get all your bills paid.
2007-07-08 08:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Pröƒé§§ôr♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋