He says oh i love you but i really don't beleave that sometimes i mean we meet on the internet he moved from california down with me here in colorado and now i think he just acts like he wants to be with me because he don't have any way back and no family please how can i tell if he really likes me or not
2007-07-08 09:12:27 · 15 answers · asked by latisha_davis69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's easy, it's not what they say, its what they do that tells you. Does he "act" like he loves you? (helps you around the house, buys you little things for no reason, helps you cook, talks to you about..whatever). What about when you make love, is there any foreplay? Does he kiss you often? Its the little things that tell you. If not, buy him a bus ticket and say adios. You are wasting your time...and his. Life is too short to be miserable.
2007-07-08 09:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so how does he act? Do you think he would get out of bed in the middle of the night for you? Would he go out of his way for you? Would he spend his last dime on you? All these things SHOW you how he feels....does he do special little things for you? Does he surprise you ?? Watch how the man acts, NOT what he says, and that will tell you everything you need to know.
2007-07-08 09:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, all men are different. He may love you or me may be just using you to get money and whatever he can get out of you. There will be signs if he is trying to use you so pay close attention. If there are no signs, then he loves you regardless of what you can do for him, regardless if he has no family there or not!
2007-07-08 09:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by cherrysweetsb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he made quite a move for you. Maybe your relationship has just hit a rought spot. This is common ecspecially when you live together becuase you get in a routine. Sit down and talk to him about it.
2007-07-08 09:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says he loves you but doesn't believe you sometimes? Darlin, it sounds like he is very unsure if he does nor not. There is no way of telling if he does unless you just plain ask him.
2007-07-08 09:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Flip-Flop Crazy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to tell is with time and his actions.
How he treats you, does he do those special things only a lover would do or those special things someone would do if they were only trying to keep you happy.
It's hard to tell sometimes, but only time will show for sure.
2007-07-08 09:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your "gut" feelings. Women are very perceptive. If you feel he really doesn't love you, but is using you because he's needy, then it's probably true. Tell him to get a job or go to a homeless shelter.
2007-07-08 09:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 07:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but if you are asking total strangers if your man loves you or not, chances are you know he doesn't and you should move on with your life.
Actions speak louder than words...
2007-07-08 09:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try the opposite. You keep asking such question and you are guaranteed the opposite results.
2007-07-08 09:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋