Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

Lately I have started feeling weird. I am in a perfectly happy relationship with my boy friend and we are soon going to celebrate our first anniversary together.
I have started thinking about life before I had a boyfriend. He is my first boyfriend and I'm 16. I and my friends used to hang out do such fun stuff together but nowadays I feel as though I'm in a barrier bound by love. I don't understand this. I feel as though I want to go back in the time where I was single and tension free with no restrictions and just thinking about yourself and stuff.
I don't want to break up with my boyfriend coz he'z a perfect sweetheart and I dont wana break his heart but I know that all those good times cant come back with him in my life as he was not a part of my friend circle. I feel as though I dont wana b in a relationship anymore and just want to be free and have the freedom to do anything I wish. What should I do? If you suggest breaking up with my boyfriend how shud I do it?

2007-07-08 11:54:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex and I are lucky to remain good friends, and cooperative parents for our kids. But as I start a new relationship, I'm sensing jealousy and bitterness.

I want to remain friends, and I would like to see her have a new relationship too . . .

Thanks.

2007-07-08 11:53:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been dating this guy bout a month, and like when we 1st met we hung out alot, and my mom would take me to his house to hang out, but like bout 2 weeks ago my mom stoped taking me over there for some reason, just like every time i asked if i could get a ride, she'd be like maybe... then totally diss the idea. ive asked several times b4 hand like a few days in advance if she'd take me over to his house, but shes always like either said no, or maybe, then no answer bak, how do i talk to her seriously to take me to see my bf?

2007-07-08 11:47:37 · 3 answers · asked by x 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 11:47:12 · 9 answers · asked by SAR 1 in Family

Ok, me and my gf have gone out for like 3 months, i dont really believe in high school love and my gf does. I realized that i am not really into relationships and i want out. However my gf "thinks she is in love" and says stuff like i dont know what i would do without u and i would do anything for you and like\ all this other stuff. So in that case i feel kind of bad. She is kind of the person who lives in a fairy tale when i am around and i am like lets have fun. I want to break up with her because i want to be single, but i dont want to hurt her feelings because she has been my firend for a while. How should i do this without making a huge mess. and her friend is really dramatic and will get into my face if i say the wrong thing

2007-07-08 11:45:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In two weeks Me and my Ex.wife will sign agreement doing with the our two kids.She want Joint legal custody and sole physical custody.If I give her sole physical custody,can she move to another state or leave the country with children.I told my lawyer out of revenge she will do that.My lawyer told me I can fight for joint physical custody.There's a chance you might get the same judge who screw you the first time. A judge who gave my wife custody of the kids.The judge admit in court that my wife took the kids to get out of paying child support to the husband.But since the husband don't have custody I'm going to give her custody.Now i get every other weekend and 5 week in the summer.

2007-07-08 11:43:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance has 2 children, the 6 year old definitely has ADHD, and the 3 year old possible does. I have a 6 year old myself that is very mellow and mature for her age. Her kids drive me CRAZY. We're working together to calm her down, and now she has an appointment to get help. We don't know what do to. I am madly in love with her, but wish that her children just went away. Will I ever get along with them? I need advice on what to do about her condition and what I can do to make this work.

2007-07-08 11:43:46 · 21 answers · asked by Hazzaird 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it normal for a guy to cheat during/after the birth of his 1st child? to me it means he is totally out of love with his wife (not to mention respect). but a friend of mine says they do it because they are stressed about the new situation. but I say she is an idiot. what do you say?

2007-07-08 11:38:34 · 28 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have noticed a pattern with my husband of 7 years.

Whenever I get any money... he always fishes it out of my hands. He doesn’t ask for it, he just pulls up to the drive-through and politely asks for the cash or runs his debit card to my account without telling me.

I don't know what to do, I can’t save or purpose money towards certain tasks or projects because of this. Any suggestions.

Also, my husband makes me get direct deposit, rather than giving me the choice to cash or deposit the checks myself. My personal preference would be to cash the ck myself, because I seem to spend it slower that way. What do you think is going through his mind?

2007-07-08 11:38:25 · 22 answers · asked by EILISHA 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. I'm white and i don't like to catagorize people nor care wut race the person is i'm dating. However, my family doesn't want me dating any african american boys. I happen to like a black guy but don't know how to get my family to accept it. Any ideas?

2007-07-08 11:34:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby has been getting worse and worse lately in regards to ignoring me and not even acting as if we are married. He is going out every day sometimes 2-3 times in a day on the weekends always without me. He has friends and names he mentions I have never met and people walk up to him and know him and I have no clue. He is leaving me out of invitations given by friends of ours. He does not tell me they called and he goes alone saying I did not want to go or was sick. He won't give me 30 seconds to ever talk to him. Our home is a flop house basically he stops in to use the bathroom and grab a drink and out the door again!! He just now took another job part time in addition to his full time job this new one being nights so now he literally will never be home. He never discussed this with me and I had no idea he was thinking of it. He does nothing with the kids. What is your take on this? Also he has become very critical of my appearence lately too. I need to "tone my arms" and so on....

2007-07-08 11:33:46 · 8 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like problems on every side.

my husband and I ARE BOTH 100lbs over weight...yet we are still attractive people. He says that me being over weight is not a problem because he says, he doesn't have a right to ask me to loose when he is bigger than me.

He is tired and sluggish and only wants to have sex about every 10 days but for me I would like to have sex every 2 to 3 days. What should I do? What is my husband of 7 years really saying?

2007-07-08 11:32:18 · 27 answers · asked by EILISHA 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 11:31:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We like to fart in public and blame it on the other one...Lol We enjoy getting the looks from other people.

Yes, we're silly.

2007-07-08 11:31:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there are many questions if men like petite girls...so I was just wondering if anyone doesn't... all of the answers are usually "yes, I like them"

2007-07-08 11:31:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my boyfriend was looking out of the window at the neighbors and I looked too. He said "I was looking at that girls booty." And pointed to our very attractive neighbor. I'm not the most beautiful girl in the world, ya know, and I got upset. He gets all angry because I'm upset and says he was joking. Should I be mad? I mean, I know he was joking, but I get jelous of other girls, and he knows it. I think he does it just to get me mad. please help

2007-07-08 11:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i GOT TO release myself but i reeeaaallly don't wanna do it right now...i wanna save it for tonight...

but im sooooo h0rny!!!

i swear this is a serious question...

what can i do it calm down? and how can i make my release amazing tonight?

2007-07-08 11:27:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 11:26:03 · 11 answers · asked by kerstin g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I watch shows like "Everybody Love Raymond", "The Simpsons", "King of Queens" and I wonder if women think these guys are real? I hate the fact that men are portrayed as stupid helpless neanderthals that can't do anything without a woman. The women are insane premenstrual b1tch3s half the time, and use sex as a weapon. Is this really what realationships are like for most people. Do women really think that men are less intelligent than they are? And, if so why? Do women act like that in real life?

2007-07-08 11:24:30 · 14 answers · asked by Jared 4 in Marriage & Divorce

have a family member who always plays games and goes around in circles i think to make people crazy and she says one thing and says another and acts stupid

2007-07-08 11:22:55 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

that i like.
but i can't bring up the courage to talk to him anymore.

some advice?

2007-07-08 11:22:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We went to a night club two days ago. I was dancing with this guy. He told me I have a sweet face and said this should stay between us. He was trying to kiss me and putting his hand on my back pocket while we were dancing. Does this mean he liked me?

2007-07-08 11:18:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and whats the best dish he makes?

how much do you love a cooking man?

2007-07-08 11:18:24 · 14 answers · asked by Life! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a virgin and a close friend of mine is a virgin as well. She keeps telling me things like:

"I'm tired of being a virgin."
"I want to have sex with someone I feel comfortable with...I feel comfortable around you."
- etc.

How the hell am I supposed to respond (smoothly), without sounding too desperate? And how do I initiate sex?

2007-07-08 11:16:22 · 13 answers · asked by blackflame003 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you be less likely to hook up with a girl if she had inverted nipples? Seriously.

2007-07-08 11:16:10 · 8 answers · asked by Lillie 3 in Singles & Dating

suggestions other than the internet or bar. been there. done that. probably the two worst places to look.

2007-07-08 11:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by jade 1 in Singles & Dating

My son live in another state. He is living with his fiance & thier baby girl. I have picked up on thing to indicate that he is dealing at least pot. He has tald my daughter/his sister that both of tham ( my son & his fiance) smoked while she was pg. & they take my grandbaby to partys with them. It is realy hurting me knowing this. But I have NO proof. My son is 25 it is his life. BUT my grandbaby girl is only 6 months. My son has already spent time behinde bars. I don't want to see he back there. But that life stile isn't good for his daughter. So do I turn him & his fiance in ??

2007-07-08 11:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by bluerose_1220 1 in Family

ok well i HAD an amazing boyfriend. we haven talke din a a little more than a week. i called him a few days ago an dhe said he was with his fireends so i wa slike talk to u later. other than that its been over a week and nothing not even a hi over the computer, not phone calls! My heart hurts and im starting ot think im invisable to him! i want to send him a message saying do i even exsist u to anymore? but sumthing is tell me to stay strong and wait till he talks to me. WHAT DO I DO!! please any advice on what i should do?

2007-07-08 11:11:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yea i was just wondering because a friend of mine always rubs my arm when he hugs me so yea. just wondering what people think.

2007-07-08 11:10:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would u rather:
1) funny or serious?
2) outgoing or shy?
3) cute or smart?
4) creative or smart?
5) talented or cool?
6) sweet or passionate?
7) kissing or cuddling?
8) strong or average?
9) skinny or a bigger?
10) random or weird?
11) red, brown, blond, or black hair?
12) blue, or brown eyes?
13) and experienced or not-experienced?

2007-07-08 11:10:35 · 14 answers · asked by xXThe SorrowXx 2 in Singles & Dating