Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

i broke up with my gf. met someone new.. she is nice..but lives in another country... met someone else at, home, broke p got back together, seeing her and she lives in a different coutry... so i have two girls, different places... i think i love them both... i meet someone else... we see each other from time to time.. nothing serious... i dont love her... i meet another girl.. again a different coutry, she is great too... they all think i am great... they all want to have me... and actually i want them all cos they are all FAB but in totally diferent ways... what do i do...

should i chose one..
keep seeing them all...
get rid of them all and start again...

should i feel guilty ?

2007-07-08 14:01:49 · 10 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm out of a long term relationship & I took about a 1/2 year to just be by myself & recover, live life & pursue my interests & talents. I've been meeting girls lately & hitting it off w/them to where there are some that are just really nice to be around. Casual dating, talking on the phone, taking walks, going on motorcycle rides, etc. Just pretty much having innocent fun. What is the best way to handle things when two or more people seem to have started to like you? So you don't have to get rid of them, but also make it known that you are just casually going out & doing things that are fun with the girls you've met, not realy pursuing a relationship, yet. To talk to them & b like, "I just want u to know that I'm casually dating & not ready for a relationship yet or anything" will make them feel stupid, like I think they are all clingy. They're not clingy. They're great. I've kissed two of them, too. Is that ok as they were just "after-date" kisses, or is that a rude lead-on

2007-07-08 14:00:44 · 4 answers · asked by rlfesty 3 in Singles & Dating

say a woman is dating someone then has a child with them and the child takes the last name of the father. now if the mother and the father break up and the mother takes the child and she gets married to another man. so which last name does the child take?

2007-07-08 13:54:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Should we woman take it as,not right now,,or that we are wasting our time with you. I know this question has been asked a million times,but this man keeps in contact with me all the time,,he really goes out of his way,,plus he is going through tough times right now.If i told a man i just wanted to be friends i would be giving him the brush off,A man said once a friend is forever but a girlfriend isnt,,so is it really a bad thing for a man to say he wants to take it slow and doesnt want to lose me as a friend ,no he isnt using me for sex,,,or shall i move on?Or am i being shallow and missing out on something good from a friendship?

2007-07-08 13:54:30 · 3 answers · asked by heartzz_ablaze 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 13:52:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My best friend's wife logs in everyday and chats with strangers and sometimes with a guy that they have had fights about earlier. Now this is all behind my friend's back. Whenever he finds out she acts very angry and creates a noise about it as if he is spying on her. He is left hurt and she knows it but continues to do it on the pretext of studying online. Would you call this betrayal??...well i do but he is not sure! Please help.

2007-07-08 13:50:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have done it and everyone at my school likes it but i don't see why
anybody know???

2007-07-08 13:46:24 · 23 answers · asked by ~♥:Heart_Broken:♥~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alrigght its going to be my hoe's birday this friday!?!?...should i buy her something?!?!...were not togethere!...but shes been a nise hoe to mee...like she lets me hit it whenevers i want...but inonn ey should i buy her something?!?!..should u buy a gift on ur hoes birthday??!?.....

ps
Fu...c............u if u hate on my spelling.....Homez

2007-07-08 13:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my parents are always telling me what to do and just boss me around all the time. What do i do to get them to stop it?

2007-07-08 13:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

just wondering and bored.

2007-07-08 13:40:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-08 13:39:38 · 4 answers · asked by CEKNB 3 in Family

My Friend Anna was last seen in Detroit Michigan. She is around 5'4. I am so afraid she is dead. She abandoned her sick addicted child in a hospital in Michigan. Last I heard she was involved in prostitution. Please place no judgements on her. She needs help and we need to find her. She has an African American companion. She has long blonde curly hair and is alittle over weight. The last person that seen her said she has lost some weight. Please Help us Find her...She needs to face what she did to her child and her family..We want the old anna back.

2007-07-08 13:37:31 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

So...every guy i've ever kissed has made it totally unromantic....u know.....food ( yuck) in their mouth, accidentally missing.....eating my face off...that's a popular one.....tongue for a first action....ew. ya sooooooo...........


how do i make sure this time it's magical?

2007-07-08 13:36:48 · 14 answers · asked by kiki<3 4 in Singles & Dating

he always throws things at me and pushing me round(he is 17)

2007-07-08 13:36:42 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda C 1 in Family

Is it true that in every circle of friends there is whore?

2007-07-08 13:36:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am also scared that he might be using me and I dont want to ask him because I'm scared of the answer and i do really like him but sometimes he is only a "**** buddy" to me and nothing else. Also we usually talk on msn but recently we havent been talking like how we used to before he started coming over my house...

2007-07-08 13:34:05 · 18 answers · asked by muffin_gawjuzz 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl i like a lot. She has done a lot more things than i have. She is tired of me not making the first move, so she is starting to think i dont like her, but i do im just nervous.. she knows i havent done as much as her, and doesnt care. should i go for it?

2007-07-08 13:33:50 · 4 answers · asked by twiztid9989 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i dont know what to do right now my mom, me and my brother and stepfather are living with me sister and her fiance in a big house but before my mom, broether & stepdad lived her i was her just me in the basement well my mom is getting an apart. when my stepfather goes into the army she had one before but she lost it anyways i want to0 go with my mom i'm sick of living with my sister her fiance and her baby i feel like i'm intruding on there little family plus that not all i just dont think i can do it anymore but like she told my mom the other day she wanted me to stay cause she didn't want to be alone like her fiance does lots of things he has 2 jobs plays golf and on top of that he's a firefighter so he's pretty much always gone shes always alone i dont want to stay here when my mom goes but if i go i feel horrible for leaving her alone the i mean i know she has a baby but thats not really adult convo i need some advice?

2007-07-08 13:30:07 · 7 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Family

My ex had a son with a man she never married because he was a drug addict. I adopted the boy when he was six and so he is my son and is now 22. Anyways my 11 year old told me since the divorce 1 1/2 years ago they went to meet the father of my adopted son with their mom. He said they went to a hotel to bring him cookies. That does not make sense to me. While we were married my ex who is a nurse got escorted from her office, she was fired because a patient claimed she stole pills from her home although no charges were filed. My ex had a bad back and always was taking oxycontin and other similiar stuff. Am I overreacting or should I be concerned between the hotel visit and my ex getting fired in regard to some drug issues?

2007-07-08 13:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What things about girls make you want to be with them or "want them" and are you ever causious about being lovable with a girl in front of your friends because of embarrasment?

2007-07-08 13:26:42 · 9 answers · asked by lillyleaper 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex had a son with a man she never married because he was a drug addict. I adopted the boy when he was six and so he is my son and is now 22. Anyways my 11 year old told me since the divorce 1 1;2 years ago they went to meet the father of my adopted son. He said they went to a hotel to bring him cookies. That does not make sense to me. While we were married my ex who is a nurse got escorted from her office, she was fired because a patient claimed she stole pills from her home. My ex had a bad back and always was taking oxcontin and othe similiar stuff. Am I overreating or should I be concerned between the hotel visit and my ex getting fired?

2007-07-08 13:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends daughter is having a formal wedding reception, and has hired a DJ to perform for the later part of the evening. There is a wedding singer and band that are performing during the cocktail and dinner hour. She has requested that the DJ wear formal attire, which he said is normal. Does she need to provide him with a buttoniere? I told her no, that those were reserved for members of the wedding party, and to identify significant family members. Now I am thinking maybe I was wrong. Need some clarification. What is right, provide a buttoniere or is that overboard?

2007-07-08 13:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by damsel36 5 in Weddings

My parents are still not contact to me for three years... When I moved with second husband out of state... I have no choice... I am changed new life with him.. He is very good to me and my four kids... How I should write letter to them that make them understand and move on accept and keep in touch... What I should say write letter to them... Make them wake up time... That s reason I moved here.. I dont want live there.. Becuz of ex my hubby there that s why... Best way keep away around him and his girlfriend... I dont want inolve any problem over over with him... That s reason many things...

2007-07-08 13:25:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-08 13:22:42 · 40 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys like when girls wear skirts?

2007-07-08 13:22:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am I stupid? My boyfriend of 11 yrs has come out as gay and has boyrfriend. Anyway he and I still have sex and I love him with all my heart and he loves my. Am I stupid for staying with him and standing by him? His boyfriend/lifepartner only wants to hang out with him not have relations.

2007-07-08 13:21:40 · 7 answers · asked by dhpw01 1 in Singles & Dating

We've probably all been there, the bad blind dates that your friend sets you up with, and he's probably the guy with the comb-over, or the girl with the junk out of her trunk! So what is the most insecure, weirdest thing about the "blind-date"?

2007-07-08 13:21:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My answer was, " Beacause there's more of us????" Well doesn't that make sence to this person??
Well I was reported, I'm a bad girl!!! BOOHOO!!!! What do you think about this answer I gave, how would you answer this queston???

2007-07-08 13:20:01 · 27 answers · asked by kim t 7 in Marriage & Divorce

he's out and really dosen't know how to budget money and he's back on crack, his lil sis loves him, he's sweet to us, but he luvs crack more. i want to help him, i can't..but i can't allow him back home because he steals.

2007-07-08 13:19:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

know who i'am anymore everyday feels the same i dunno why i love my girls and doing thins for them and my partner but why do i feel im missing out!!!

2007-07-08 13:15:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family