ok so i dont know what to do right now my mom, me and my brother and stepfather are living with me sister and her fiance in a big house but before my mom, broether & stepdad lived her i was her just me in the basement well my mom is getting an apart. when my stepfather goes into the army she had one before but she lost it anyways i want to0 go with my mom i'm sick of living with my sister her fiance and her baby i feel like i'm intruding on there little family plus that not all i just dont think i can do it anymore but like she told my mom the other day she wanted me to stay cause she didn't want to be alone like her fiance does lots of things he has 2 jobs plays golf and on top of that he's a firefighter so he's pretty much always gone shes always alone i dont want to stay here when my mom goes but if i go i feel horrible for leaving her alone the i mean i know she has a baby but thats not really adult convo i need some advice?
2007-07-08 13:30:07 · 7 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is not your job to keep your sister company while her husband engages in various persuits. He may need to work two jobs, but she needs to talk with him about golf and firefighting. Something has to go since it sounds like she wants more time with him. She also needs to join a mother's group or meet some friends her age (with babies) that she can socialize with.
Do not feel guilty about leaving your sister's house. Your sister needs to grow up and take her life into her own hands.
2007-07-08 13:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to begin to live your own life. If you can find a place of your own, and then visit a lot. If you move in with your mother, both of you can visit.
2007-07-08 13:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your mother but visit you sister on regular bases
2007-07-08 14:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to go wherever your told to go if your too young to make that decision by yourself.
2007-07-08 13:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants you there with her. She might need the help and companionship.
2007-07-08 13:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Retype that then ,maybe we can understand what your question was....
2007-07-08 13:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with her for some more time.
2007-07-08 13:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by ram2k21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋