know who i'am anymore everyday feels the same i dunno why i love my girls and doing thins for them and my partner but why do i feel im missing out!!!
2007-07-08 13:15:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just like every1 else said...find a hobby, wk part-time, u need some adult time.or try to hold off till u send ur 3yr to preschool and see if a family member can take care of ur 1yr so u can take some CLS.....art, dance,etc.. go shopping with another mom. u never know u might find something u might like to get into...don't let time pass u by. and keep waking up in the morning and have same routine....it up to u to wake up and make a small or big change in ur life...if u think about it too much you might become very depress.... and that's not where u want to go for u or ur kids.....start looking for something to keep ur mind active and spirit happy.....GOOD LUCK IN FINDING SOMETHING U ENJOY......take care:)
2007-07-08 16:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by j.j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to feel that way because you're a young mommy with two small children....your "indentity" is wrapped up in the very real (24/7) business of raising healthy children. But, here's the thing....you'd feel that way if you were 34; it goes with the territory...it's a bit lonely and isolating when you're working in the home exclusively. As they get older, you'll get out more again, and things will improve. Motherhood is a noble profession. Until then, reliable babysitters and an occasional night out as a couple can do wonders to relieve the pressures a bit for both of you. Good luck to you, and keep up the great work.
2007-07-08 13:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are missing out! first of all you call her your partener,very funny situation,partener of what? would you not be more suddisfied if she was your wife instead? what will you say to your kids when they reach the age of question like," why mum is not your wife?
The missing point in your life is to know that life with your partner is not on permanent basis,terefore this situation make you fell guilty every day of you living together. And one day your own children will pictures you as only a partener in there life as well.
2007-07-08 13:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Gianna V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're giving too much and not recieving enough. I guess you should be asking yourself what you partner has done lately to make you feel special... like you're the only woman in the world to him. If you have trouble remembering how long it's been... then maybe it's time to move on (or have yourself a fling).
2007-07-08 13:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Solarcide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 25 and i dont have kids so i can only imagine what you must be feeling.
i wonder, are you a stay-at-home mom? often times, women feel that way when they dont have adult interaction. or feel they sacrificed in order to start their families. perhaps you feel trapped by the life you have choosen?
i suggest you attempt to go back to work or further your education so that you dont feel like you're missing out. maybe the interaction with outside people a few hours/week will help satisy your desire for self.
remember to give to others, you must give to yourself first.
2007-07-08 13:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by act_won 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got married to young, had kids too young, and didn't sleep around/have enough fun while young. On the good side, you're kids will be off to college while you're in your prime so you can get out and have far more fun than most of your friends then.
2007-07-08 13:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a young mother with a family and sometimes your going to feel like your in a rut. Try to get a hobby where you feel like you are not missing out.
2007-07-08 13:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by athena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got married to young. This why people should put off marriage until they are 25 or so. People who marry young often feel they lost a part of their youth.
2007-07-08 13:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jethro M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same routine does get boring eventually try out new things with your family or learn a new task like learning a new language might help or just something you enjoy
2007-07-08 13:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by loc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r certainly enjoyin yr life with yr family...but i think u have lost yr own identity somewhere behind...each human being have hidden talents possesed within them,u too must be very talented...so my point it tht explore yr talents,explore yr horizons...n then certainly life would be more beautiful 4 u, do any professional work..n be an independent woman supporting yr spouse in life...!!!cheers
2007-07-08 13:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋