My friends daughter is having a formal wedding reception, and has hired a DJ to perform for the later part of the evening. There is a wedding singer and band that are performing during the cocktail and dinner hour. She has requested that the DJ wear formal attire, which he said is normal. Does she need to provide him with a buttoniere? I told her no, that those were reserved for members of the wedding party, and to identify significant family members. Now I am thinking maybe I was wrong. Need some clarification. What is right, provide a buttoniere or is that overboard?
2007-07-08 13:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by damsel36 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No, he does not require a buttoniere, just as you wouldn't provide one for the serving staff. He's there to work.
2007-07-08 13:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's necessary. A bouttoniere is to signify the family members and the wedding party.
2007-07-08 13:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They normally are for family, but in formal situations all men usually wear a buttoniere as far as I know. Have her buy him one and give him the option of whether he feels it's necessary to wear it throughout the night.
2007-07-08 15:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. That would take away from the wedding party and the family members.
2007-07-08 13:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by Krystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 08:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is optional. We are a wedding officiant service, and sometimes he is given a boutonniere, and sometimes not. It is a nice gesture, but not necessary.
2007-07-09 09:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by LoveWithNoBoundaries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he doesn't need it, and I've never heard of someone dictating a dj as to what clothes to wear!
2007-07-09 02:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a DJ forgo the flowers... Besides it not that big of an issue... Good luck
2007-07-08 13:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She does not need to provide him with a boutonniere. Absolutely not necessary.
2007-07-08 13:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Nathan T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't he getting paid for his services.
2007-07-08 13:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋