Help with annoying parents?

Question

Okay, my parents are always telling me what to do and just boss me around all the time. What do i do to get them to stop it?

Answer 1

They are your parents!!! They have every right to tell you what to do. Without supervision you would do what you want and sometimes that can turn into a bad thing.Without someone telling you what to do how would you know how to do things? Everyone has someone that tells them what to do. When your parents go to work they have bosses that they have to listen to. It's your job as their child to listen to them. You will be a parent someday and you too will tell your child what to do. It's how life works. How you get them to stop it is do it before they have to ask.

Answer 2

Sounds like you are going through a phase right now. Its normal. You may not want to hear this but parents are supposed to tell you what to do and at the same time they are supposed to boss you around. But I know how you feel it gets real annoying doesn't it? Well the most you can do is listen to them, when they ask for a favor or something, show them you are a loyal daughter and soon enough they will ease up and stop bossing you around so much. But don't give them attitude or start cussing at them or anything because it will only get worse. Talk to your closest parent at a good time and tell them what your feeling. As long as you live with them listen to them and try to make the most of your life. I hope this helped a little. All the best!!

Answer 3

Do you live at home with them? Do they pay the bills, or at least most of them? (I say most, because even if you paid a third of the bills, that means they still pay the other two thirds, and therefore more than you do.) Are you a student, and if so, do they pay the tuition? If your answer to any of these questions are yes, then as long as that's the case, then the answer to your question is yes, they can do that (boss/veto/overprotect/amend/overrule, impose their own decisions etc), and there's pretty much nothing you can do, except move out. That's always an option. That's pretty much the only escape for you, from this. Your age means nothing. Both where you live physically does, and how you support yourself.

Answer 4

someone needs to be more honest and straight up ask the question "how do I manipulate my parents"

or "how do mentally condition myself to comfortable and enjoyable take orders"

or "how can I be a happy servant"

or "how to be happy under the age of 21"


the art of seduction by robert greene
48 laws of power by robert greene, learn a little bit about people and how they work, you can't make anyone do anything, but you can influence them to.



its a simple logical way of breaking down situations and people.

why are people noisey?

they are

a. scared

b. discontented

c.are lonely.


they are scared that you will not succeed in life and be a bum, prove them wrong by being a success, college, grades, cleaning, chores, do it all on your own without asking for help,
this will solve problem a,



problem b. is solved by giving them gifts and compliments


problem c. is solved by offering company and conversation.
in depth conversation, real and sincere.

do all of these things and they will leave you alone

Answer 5

Help with annoying kids? OK I have that out of my system, sorry. It is your parents job to tell you what to do and boss you around. One way is to beat them to the punch, get all of your chores done without being told, then when they tell you to clean your room, say done, do dishes-done, mow yard-done etc. then if you really want to freak them out-- don't ask for anything!

Answer 6

Get a job.

Even if you're too young to work at McDonalds or in a shop somewhere, you can go out and mow lawns. Clean house for old people, babysit.

At least it will get you out of the house. You will be making your own money and showing everyone you're responsible and growing up.

Parents freak out and sometimes need time to realize their kids are growing up.

Answer 7

If I were you I would feel lucky... seriously

My dad was previously a alcoholic, and (still) spen(t)(ds) all his time grounding me, most of the time for "the hell of it".

If the request is unreasonable tell them and explain, but otherwise there isn't much you can do :(

Answer 8

how old are you? if your a minor, that's there job! also, we are only hearing your version, what are you doing or not doing to need bossing around?♥

Answer 9

Hun, there aint nothin you can do. I only have 4 years left then i don't have to deal with that bull anymore so yeah

Answer 10

Just do what they tell you. When you grow up it will be easer,but there your parents.