Am I stupid? My boyfriend of 11 yrs has come out as gay and has boyrfriend. Anyway he and I still have sex and I love him with all my heart and he loves my. Am I stupid for staying with him and standing by him? His boyfriend/lifepartner only wants to hang out with him not have relations.
2007-07-08 13:21:40 · 7 answers · asked by dhpw01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out now. Any man who wants to have sex with ANYONE else other then thier loved one, is not the person for you. And honey, after 11 years you should want more.
2007-07-08 13:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
woah dude, that's weird. I don't think your stupid.. your just in love with him. How could he turn out to be gay?!! I think you should dump him because maybe that is what he wants cause he already has a bf. If you can't break up with him cause you love him so much, then still stick with him and do what you do.
2007-07-08 20:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to break it off with him. he likes men. end of statement. you need to find another guy that actually likes women. i know you two love each other, but HE'S GAY. i think you two would be better off as best friends...unless he turns back around. good luck.
2007-07-08 20:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by cakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok,if i found out that my BF was gay i would break up with him so fast.
but if you love him then just tell him that and maybe he will come to you than,GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-08 20:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by ~♥:Heart_Broken:♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow.
2007-07-08 20:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Orange Lipbalm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry if he is gay he would not be interested in you at all except in a platonic way --- he is bi and maybe confused --- best wishes
2007-07-08 20:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not stupid but how does the love of your life feel about you ???????
2007-07-08 20:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by lil_mz.cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋