I am also scared that he might be using me and I dont want to ask him because I'm scared of the answer and i do really like him but sometimes he is only a "**** buddy" to me and nothing else. Also we usually talk on msn but recently we havent been talking like how we used to before he started coming over my house...
2007-07-08 13:34:05 · 18 answers · asked by muffin_gawjuzz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also says he loves me and stuff like I'm pretty sure he doesnt mean that exactly yet and he says he wud wait 4 me till like i finish high school?? My friends are worried for me and i really dont know what to do. I dont want to lose him coz he seems like a pretty nice guy... I'm not sure HELP!
2007-07-08 13:44:29 · update #1
ask him dorectly ''do u really love me''
wat u prefer tht he keeps using or to broke up with
or jst now tht he really loves u
2007-07-08 15:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Can't Judge This Guy Without Knowing Him But It Sounds Like He's Using You For Sex. I Have A Lot Of 17 Year Old Friends And They Wouldn't Be Interested In Dating Someone So Young Unless It Was To Get One Thing. I Think You're Too Young To Have These Kind Of Relationships, You Should Have More Respect For Yourself And Wait Till You're Older And More Responsible. Good Luck =]
2007-07-08 13:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop it! You are way too young for that(and so is he). It doesn't seem like it now, I know. I was 13 once. I am 21 now. So, I am young enough to remember 13, but old enough to have gained some wisdom since then. Read some of these other questions from people that don't know what to do now that they are pregnant or have an STD. Please, for yourself and for your future spouse, wait for the man who will love you enough to commit to you forever. Sex in that kind of setting is better than anything else. I'm married, and I am overwhelmed at how wonderful it feels to lie next to a man that is not going anywhere, and who will never be with anyone else. And that makes the physical experience 100 times better. Don't wait until you messed up your life to change the direction that you are going. If you don't have respect for yourself with the way you hand out your body, then no man that you are with will have respect for your body or your feelings either.
2007-07-08 13:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by firewife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my god, you're only 13. you should not have any "**** buddies" yet, never mind one that's 17. I'm pretty sure that it's illegal, and will certainly be when he's 18. I am certain he's just using you. 13-17 is a pretty big difference. And since your "relationship" will become illegal on his next birthday, if it isn't already, he can't really commit to it, can he?
This is a sad, messed up world, and I hope you learn something from this. You have a long life ahead of you, don't mess it up now by trying to grow up too fast. Finish school and find a career. After that you can worry about relationships without impacting your whole life.
2007-07-08 13:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if this 17 year old is have sex with you at 13 then something is wrong with him sorry but at 17 he should be with a 17 year old. it sounds to me that this guy just wants sex from you and that's not something that you should be going through, these are the times of your life that you will remember for life and you don't need to remember being used but being with someone who like you for you and not just a "**** buddy"
2007-07-08 13:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you want to be grown up but you should just forget about the guy and enjoy being young still. Most guys at 17 arent looking for a serious thing anyway. I hope things get better!!!
2007-07-08 13:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Little girl he is using you. You should be playing with barbies still. You are way to young to have a f*ck buddy. Enjoy your childhood while you still have one. I tried to grow up fast too when I was young. I can realize that now. Kick that that sh*t head out of your life. Don't grow up yet!!! Trust me.
2007-07-08 13:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Estrella Negra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why r u having sex yet. Yo mom must not be like mine. Yes it is a huge problem with that. He is a pervert if he could have sex with a child. He is almost legal. What is wrong with u. That's a horrible thing!!!
2007-07-08 13:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by DetroitFynest 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Um YES he's using you! And YES that's bad! Do you want to be 13 and get pregnant and have a kid at 14 and then he leaves you to get more **** buddies??? I don't think so. You are being very irresponsible. What if you catch an STD or AIDs and then you can't have sex with anyone ever again? Please stop for your future - get smart honey.
2007-07-08 13:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by dreamkilter 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
It is a bad thing and of course he's using. Why would a 17 year old want a 13 year old? There are girls his age that actually have much more better bodies. Just forget him though he's just a jerk.
2007-07-08 13:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
More than likely, he is using you! And you're only 13! You should not be having sex! And if you'll are having sex, but you're not dating, then obviously he doesn't like or appreciate you. To him, you are just some young girl who is willing to have sex with him! That's it! Period!
2007-07-08 13:39:48 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋