i broke up with my gf. met someone new.. she is nice..but lives in another country... met someone else at, home, broke p got back together, seeing her and she lives in a different coutry... so i have two girls, different places... i think i love them both... i meet someone else... we see each other from time to time.. nothing serious... i dont love her... i meet another girl.. again a different coutry, she is great too... they all think i am great... they all want to have me... and actually i want them all cos they are all FAB but in totally diferent ways... what do i do...
should i chose one..
keep seeing them all...
get rid of them all and start again...
should i feel guilty ?
2007-07-08 14:01:49 · 10 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm confused which makes me wonder how you yourself can't be confused. The logical part of me wants to say you should let them all go considering what you're doing is wrong but another part of me - the senseless part - wishes you the best of luck and hopes you can keep the names straight, as long as they don't meet one another you're in the clear. But remember, you do have to decide at one point or another seeing as this situation can't last forever.
2007-07-08 14:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dahlias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right; you do need some help for you are indeed confused. I don't know what you feel but I most certainly will not call it love.You "know " three ladies, all in different parts of the world;how can you think you love all three when you have not gotten the opportunity to get to know any one of them.I sense you are actually afraid of involvement, hence , you select girls you have no chance of building anything with.This way you can always blame distance for a lack of success. I suggest that you cut all ties with these women,be by yourself, and try to figure out what scares you about getting close to a woman. While I am no psychiatrist, I believe that this is the reason why you are in this mess.Your issue is not guilt but fear.I wish you all the best..
2007-07-08 21:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! This is a tough question. I believe this is why you should only date one female at a time. Otherwise, it is so confusing. Because all people are so unique, you may see some things you like in one girl and not another... this creates a lot of confusion and guilt! I would say really pray which one if any you want to be with and don't string them along any further!
2007-07-08 21:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are cheating on all of them so you should feel guilty and i think that you should get over the ones in other countries because a girl thats in the same place as you would be better
2007-07-08 21:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on man, thats not cool.
I think that you should choose one, tell them all about what happened and the one that does not dump you, pick her.
If they all dump you, (which probably will happen) just find ONE AND ONLY ONE GIRL, and date her.
But being a player is not cool, plus you can get a disease if you are sexually involved with all of them.
2007-07-08 21:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by triniunispy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over yourself. Do you honestly think they aren't seeing other people if you are in a different country? They are just hanging on to you for something to do. And what do you do....travel to a different country every month or so?
2007-07-08 21:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready to be serious with any of these girls. That's o.k. But you need to let them know. If they want to keep seeing you, that's great and you don't need to feel guilty anymore!
2007-07-08 21:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by City Gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How r u dating them all? On the computer?
2007-07-08 21:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by DetroitFynest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant u find someone in your own country
and dont worry theyll find out and kick you to the curb
2007-07-08 21:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by rage6996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope they all dump you, you player.
2007-07-08 21:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by Brandi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋