How to handle casual dating when there are two people or more that like you?

Question

I'm out of a long term relationship & I took about a 1/2 year to just be by myself & recover, live life & pursue my interests & talents. I've been meeting girls lately & hitting it off w/them to where there are some that are just really nice to be around. Casual dating, talking on the phone, taking walks, going on motorcycle rides, etc. Just pretty much having innocent fun. What is the best way to handle things when two or more people seem to have started to like you? So you don't have to get rid of them, but also make it known that you are just casually going out & doing things that are fun with the girls you've met, not realy pursuing a relationship, yet. To talk to them & b like, "I just want u to know that I'm casually dating & not ready for a relationship yet or anything" will make them feel stupid, like I think they are all clingy. They're not clingy. They're great. I've kissed two of them, too. Is that ok as they were just "after-date" kisses, or is that a rude lead-on

Answer 1

If you're getting into "after-date" kissing, it's time to put on the breaks. Most people don't kiss when they're just friends. I really don't know if there's any way to bring this up without hurting someone. But at this point it's probably too late for that. Have you been hiding these girls from each other? You're going to get into trouble if they start to get serious and you have to suddenly back off and tell them. I really don't know how you could start the conversation, but if it comes up you have to be completely honest. If you start lying to them and leading them on, it will just get worse. Explain to them that you like them, but just weren't looking for an involved relationship. And apologize profusely for misleading them.

Answer 2

Never. Unconditional love is a love so one can consistently love the identical, it doesn't matter what. Instead of turning a blind eye to issues or situations, it prefers to be sufferer and know-how, and retain loving it doesn't matter what. Unconditional love are not able to be earned or misplaced. Blind love does now not exist, in view that a blind love could require the bestower to like in adversity by way of watching the opposite direction alternatively of embracing the main issue and dealing by way of it, loving the identical all of the whilst, which in no way lasts. Unconditional love is a love that endures perpetually.

Answer 3

Just be upfront and honest with all of them. Tell them what you are telling us. They may not be clingy but that doesnt mean that they not be developing feelings for you. As long as you don't lead any of them on and are honest about what you want you should be fine.

Answer 4

Just be honest and open about it. You can tell them straight. It's better than them believing and expecting you want to pursue something serious.