Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

Someone once told me that becuase I'm "fat" (which I consider myself full figured thanks) that I have no chance of getting with a guy unless he's poor desperate or old. It's a cruel thing to say frankly I'm over it. However is there some truth to this?

2007-07-08 13:13:50 · 24 answers · asked by Noree 3 in Singles & Dating

19 years married my wife left me for her boss
Now I Am going through a divorce 7 months now
I met a lady when I was working we talked it seem to be going very well,she had a kindness about her I really wanted to keep talking but I needed to get back to work.
Well all I know about her was her name and I seen her phone number in the white pages..I know she has been divorced about a year or more.
I never even thought I would be looking for another someone in my life but I really can not stop thinking how nice it would be to get to talk to her again. On the other hand I do not want to look like I Am a stalker..!
should I just let it go or should I proceed to call her? HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-07-08 13:12:32 · 7 answers · asked by devinandkeatin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't seen my boyfriend in a while we had a little setback a few months ago. And the other night I went to go spend the night w/ him and I went downstairs to get a drink his phone rung and it was about 2a.m. I left the phone alone but the person was calling and calling for about an hour straight. I went back downstairs because at this point he was sleep. I looked through his phone and I saw pictures of women privates, one bending over (no underwear), 2 were getting shot in the face(if you know what I mean) and last but not least he had this picture in his phone with his foot actually in the girls a**. that one made me throw up. My boyfriend and I do some kinky s*** but damn. Nothing like the one picture. I shouldn't have went through the phone but if someone is calling his phone 2a.m. If it was important they would have called the house. I'm just really pissed about it. Should I say something or should I hint around it.............we've been 2gether for 6yrs now. I need help.

2007-07-08 13:12:13 · 28 answers · asked by DADDYS' GIRL 4LF 1 in Singles & Dating

I married my second husband on 7-7-07 He has been my best friend since Kindergarden..... any one eles?

2007-07-08 13:11:58 · 13 answers · asked by tammer 5 in Marriage & Divorce

They both profess to be saved but are living together. I say they should marry but others say they are too young and should wait, even though they are living together. I was told they believe this because they are looking at the long term picture. This person is a Christian. Marry or not?

2007-07-08 13:09:45 · 20 answers · asked by tulip_five 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad passed 3 yrs ago and has a brother in san francisco who im about to meet in october, what can i get him for a gift he is 74 yrs old.. any suggestions?

2007-07-08 13:09:34 · 5 answers · asked by amy j 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I'm almost going out with this guy (he likes me, i like him, so we're deff gonna go out). I've never officially gone out with a guy, so my parents are used to me hanging out with anyone except my female friends. What are some ways to approach this to them? I am 15, almost 16, and hes 16, almost 17. I am mature and I get good grades and excel at my sport, so I feel as if I'm ready. I just need help getting my protective dad to let go. Any ideas?

Also, my brother for some reason doesnt like the kid im about to go steady with, how can I convince him too that hes a good kid. He's told me to stay away from him and that he's a poser and I really, really know that he's not. I've been with him a few places and he's really sweet. Okay, enough with that, what do you think of this whole thing? Thanks for reading this :-)

2007-07-08 13:09:23 · 3 answers · asked by manateeluver32 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, i guess my dad thinks im gonna be some sex star cause one night, we were eating king crab legs. and i said that it is fun to bite the claw then suck the meat and juices out. and my parents friend said that all my friends (that are guys) are gonna bring me home saying "look at what she can DO!!!!" and then another time, i was sitting on the couch and he said blow the candles out. they were in a row. like tallest to shortest. so the couch is 2ft away from the candles, and i stayed where i was on the couch and blew them out with one blow. my dad looked like he was about to cry and looked at my mom and she started laughing. or, ill be standing somewhere and ill bend backwards and touch the floor with my hands. i think hes scared for my "saftey". is that kind of stuff that,...i dont know...is does taht really give him reason to think that? imean im 14, and i have lotsa guy friends that i go and talk to regulary and spend lotsa time with

2007-07-08 13:06:33 · 8 answers · asked by redneck girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my really close friend asked my if she was prettier than her sister. she wasnt, so i told her her sis was prettier(she asked me to be brutally honest and spare her feelings). thenn she asked me what i'd give her on a scale of 1-10. i told her a 4.5. (she told me to be BRYTALLY honest!!!!!). i was 100% honest, and now i dont think she likes me very much. she told me to be brutally honest and spare her feelings, and i did exactly that, but she doesnt like it. we're super close friends, but did she want me to lie but pretend im telling the truth? cuz i would've wanted someone i could trust to give me good advice and honesty, no matter how much it hurt. did i do the right thing, or was i too blunt? i did tell her i think shes very pretty. and now she's giving me the "cold shoulder." what'd i do wrong?

2007-07-08 13:04:54 · 7 answers · asked by yahooanswers 2 in Friends

2007-07-08 13:02:44 · 3 answers · asked by Teresa G 1 in Weddings

2007-07-08 13:00:48 · 30 answers · asked by Tigger2011 1 in Singles & Dating

(it was a bit for me)

we were at the movies i had to bring my cousin and he had to bring his sister. After the movie we went to the arcade and cause iam really good at air hockey and his sister isnt he was distracting me lol. he was hugging me from my back then after a while he started rubbing my legs lol then my stomach and he did that constantly.

lol after a while we got kicked out cause my cousin dumped popcorn on my bf while he was playing a game and someone that works at the movies kicked us out while he was rubbing my legs lol (he was right up against my back the whole time with his front against me)

2007-07-08 13:00:21 · 15 answers · asked by CupCake 5 in Singles & Dating

where can i find a Roslyn Snachez look alike she is just beautiful..please dnt say Puerto Rico

2007-07-08 13:00:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 12:59:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is not only smile, some times you have to know what to speak, act.
ido know, answerme

2007-07-08 12:57:36 · 7 answers · asked by strella 1 in Friends

Neither of our parents would approve or understand. So it would be up to the judge. We love each other very much, and we know that we are meant to be together anyway. We just want to get married now.

2007-07-08 12:57:33 · 22 answers · asked by Teresa G 1 in Weddings

im stuck in a dead end realtionship that my ex is dieing to get out he doesnt want the baby and he wants to move on with his life...i on the other hand feel that if i do have this child it will be extremmly difficult on me and i have no one esle to support me i want to have an abortion and move on with my life until i get married and deffinatley know there is a way i can support a child ...im 25 ....what should i do???

2007-07-08 12:57:21 · 26 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone who I haven't heard from in a while referred someone to me (another travel agency) Me and him have been in an "off and on" type of thing for awhile. But sometimes he seems as if he doesnt care, so I was suprised when I heard from him. I'm also beginning to wonder if he gave me the referral because he wants me to move back into the area he's in and this person specializes in the area. He always seems to "be on time" when I really miss him though. It was nice to know he was thinking about me though. What's ur opinion?

2007-07-08 12:57:12 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Honey 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend is having some trouble he likes this girl who is his and my friend and he is thinking of telling her online i told him he shouldnt but he wont listen its the only way he will get to talk to her since he doesmt hangout that much with her so wat should he do

2007-07-08 12:55:50 · 1 answers · asked by andrew 1 in Friends

like one special person meant just for you.

2007-07-08 12:55:37 · 27 answers · asked by Lee Edward 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been having an ongoing arguement. He would get on the computer while I was out and look up things and then erase them and clean the computer. He was very secretive and I begun to suspect something was up. When I uploaded a keylogger,I found that he was looking up many types of porn.We used to look it up together but lately he pays no attention to me physically, or mentally.It really hurt when I realized that he was getting more pleasure from looking at porn then being with me.I finally admitted one night to installing the keylogger.He is very good at turning things around and making me feel at fault so instead of explaining or even wanting to talk to me about why he would look up the types of things he did ,all he did was yell at me about the keylogger and refused to talk about anything else.I have a very high need for sex and he used to too, but now nothing happens between us. Was I really in the wrong for suspecting him. There has been fidelity prob in the past.

2007-07-08 12:55:27 · 15 answers · asked by ambrosiag2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so I wanted to get some feedback about this one. When you take a first date out to dinner, how do you handle the check. If you split the bill, you will come off as cheap, yet if you pick up the whole amount she may feel that you are trying to buy more than dinner, and get her to feel she owes you something. What do you think?

Guys: Any tactful ideas?

Ladies: What would you find most impressive?

2007-07-08 12:54:09 · 25 answers · asked by PrinceWilliam 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in high school, but I met someone at a party, and she's in college. I REALLY want to add her as a friend on facebook, but I don't know if i should, cuz I just met her. I mean, she seemed really nice and everything, and we got into a good conversation. Andd.. another reason I don't know if I should add her is because none of her friends are in high school... they are ALL in college. I don't know what to do?!

Well I didn't really MEET her at the party, our parents were good friends since we were little, but we only really started talking at the party.

2007-07-08 12:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by pixiestix 1 in Friends

My fiance and I are going to get married soon, but didn't want to have the wedding just yet. We were wondering if it was required to have a wedding to be legally married.

2007-07-08 12:51:07 · 25 answers · asked by Teresa G 1 in Weddings

My ex husband does not like my current boyfriend. When i told him that it wasn't my problem since we are divorced, he is now trying to drag our kids in to the mix. He tells the kids to monitor my boyfriend and keep notes of his behavior towards me and them. He also wants a document saying he can take the kids away if he dosent like my behavior or the behavior my boyfriend. He cites the fact that my boyfriend has alcohol in his fridge, and that his friends drink also. But i make sure that when the kids are at my house that they know that those drinks are for adults only. My ex also wants to challange if my boyfriend is fit to be around children. Well my boyfriend has kids of his own and they are very well adjusted from what i can see. In fact he even has full custody of one of them and he lives with us with no problems. I try to keep my exes out of my current realtionships as i don't care who he dates as long as they don't hurt my kids. The thing is my boyfriend has been nothing but

2007-07-08 12:48:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 12:47:04 · 44 answers · asked by brownsugar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 12:45:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sad story :( Based on a true story. I come to your grave everyday,to talk to you...People tell me you can`t hear me because your gone. I just tell them You might be gone in there eyes but not in mine,Because your still in my heart in you`ll always be...I cry when i think of you But people ask me why I just tell them how i felt about you in that i still love you. And that I miss you so much But people just tell me there is no point in still loving you Because your gone in you`ll never be coming back And I agree with them.You are gone but you will never be forgotten and one day we will meet again I promise...I pray to God everynight asking him to keep you safe And I talk to him about meeting you again I wanted to kill myself just so i could see your face again In heaven but then i knew you wouldn`t want me to do that I try to be happy but i can`t when i know that i won`t hear your voice for along time I always thought i could live without you but i really feel i can`t

2007-07-08 12:45:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2007-07-08 12:44:34 · 11 answers · asked by marissa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 12:43:12 · 15 answers · asked by krstngooden 1 in Singles & Dating