why is it hard for a man to be faithful to a woman that does everthing for him?

Answer 1

you know...i read the first response to this question...and all i have to say to her is F*CK YOU.....i was cheated on while i was in Iraq fighting for this peice of SH*T country...and thats what i got...women are just as bad....i dont just care about sex....sex if fun yes...BUT if you find the right man...you will know....if you keep falling for all these dumb men...you get what you deserve...your only going to find the type of person....where you meet them...if u find a guy at a club or a bar...and through a slutty friend...what do you think is going to happen?.....go to church meet a church guy...or something like that

Answer 2

Because she reminds him of his mother.

Want a man to be faithful? Give him his treat every night. Say naughty, sexy things on his e-mail to him. Text him that you miss him during the day. Tell him the things you admire about him. Know what his fantasies are, and incorporate them.

Eat healty, nutritious meals. Take a vitamin every day. Wear your makeup when he is home.

Forget "doing everything for him",

Do you think if he interprets "hon, can you do that load of towels for me?' as "i'm gonna take a shower and give you some more of what you got last night" that that man isn't going to do a load of towels?

do you really think he cares that you wash the dishes in the morning if you take a bath, put on something, ummm, appealing, put on your makeup and seduce him?

I pretty much suspect a mistress does not go, 'oh, you're here, let me finish the dishes first.' not on your life. She's ready and waiting. She's just spent the last two hours bathing and fixing her hair and doing her makeup and putting well, That on.

You're his wife. He comes home to you every day. You have the inside track. Buy some candles, put whatever he likes to drink in the fridge, wear black, and seduce your man. Give that other woman What For, every night.

Fight fire with fire, dear.

No love scene ever ended with a final shot of a clean kitchen, know what I mean?

Answer 3

It's not what you do it's who you are together. You could fawn all over someone but if you don't share your life, your dreams, your goals, your expectations it doesn't matter. If you can't sit down and talk to each other about what is important, doing everything isn't going to cut it. If you are nothing but the Stepford Wife, you need to re-evaluate why you don't have a real marriage. And then again, you could have just married a loser after all. Not enough information here.

Answer 4

Because its about the challenge. No doubt he did everything he could to snag you. Now that he has you, there is no challenge.
Men and women both tend to want what they cant have. Its human nature.
Its not hard to get a man, but its hard to keep one. If he is doing this to you, you are being too good to him. Give him a challenge, see if he dont take notice. Perhaps a little flirt with the neighbor will make him pay attention and see what he has at home?
Just a thought, do what you feel you should. But, the more you do for him, the less he wants. Its fact. It happened to me. However, I flipped the tables and had his sole attention again. Its not that he dont care about you, but you gotta keep him at arms length at times. Its sad, but true.
Give him what he gives you. If he gives you respect, give it back. If he gives you attitude, give it back. Dont reward him for bad behavior. No matter how good you are to him, he wont appreciate it and he will just keep taking.
Feed the good,
Starve the bad.
Kinda like training a dog.....lol
Good luck to you hun.

Answer 5

I have the same problem with my husband right now. He is a cheating dog, and I have done everything I can to make him happy. I am finally realizing that he does not deserve me. He gives me no respect not only as his wife, but as a woman. I am tired of it. I am getting out of it, and I suggest you do the same, because no matter how good you treat that man, he will NEVER change. He will use you for a doormat. They don't deserve us honey, leave his *** behind.

Answer 6

Not all men are a bunch of sex driven pigs. I married one of the few good men left. It sounds like the man you are talking about is just selfish. Society is like that in general, male or female. Everybody seems to be out do do what makes them feel good regardless of how it affects anyone else. A good relationship requires that both individuals be selfless. It won't matter how much you pour into it if he is selfish. Only he can change that.

Answer 7

Maybe because it gets predictable. Don't get me wrong, I spoil my husband, I even take his boots off when he gets home from work. (NO i dont think it is degrading, he ties my shoes, :-) ...anyways, what I'm saying is maybe he is looking for something different. I know I purposely spice things up from time to time. I'll cook him dinner, but I find ways to get him involved or do things like cook in an apron,,,only an apron. LOL. There is no excuse for a cheating man! But there are ways to keep him to intrigued to look anywhere else.

Answer 8

If she does everything for him, he may have too much free time on his hands. If he had to cook three nights a week and do his own laundry, he'd have less fooling around time.

More seriously, maybe she's made herself into a doormat because she'd afraid he'll leave. He got the message that he didn't have to do anything to keep her so he's taken the next step to see if he can get away with nookie on the side, too.

Answer 9

Why do you do everything for him? Love, honor and cherish doesn't mean that you do everything for them. Is he an adult or an infant? Its important to love your spouse but even that can go too far. Men like women who stand up for themselves and are assertive. I don't think men like to feel like their wife is pushover. Maybe he sees you in a different light being that you do too much for him. Take care of yourself, let him do his thing and maybe then he'll devote less time to cheating and more time to his wife. The more you do, the more they let you do. I think he's taking advantage of you. You need to stand up for yourself before its too late.

Answer 10

It's not hard at all for a real man. If you are having this type of a problem then you don't have that "real" man.