19 years married my wife left me for her boss
Now I Am going through a divorce 7 months now
I met a lady when I was working we talked it seem to be going very well,she had a kindness about her I really wanted to keep talking but I needed to get back to work.
Well all I know about her was her name and I seen her phone number in the white pages..I know she has been divorced about a year or more.
I never even thought I would be looking for another someone in my life but I really can not stop thinking how nice it would be to get to talk to her again. On the other hand I do not want to look like I Am a stalker..!
should I just let it go or should I proceed to call her? HELP!!!!!!!!
2007-07-08 13:12:32 · 7 answers · asked by devinandkeatin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should go for it! Your ex has obviously moved on and you should too. You deserve to be happy :) Give the girl a call and let her know you're interested. I am sure she won't think you're stalking her. Good luck hun!
2007-07-08 13:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be thought of as a stalker if you haven't had any contact and just want to contact her for a friendly get-together? It doesn't hurt to follow up with someone you considered nice and pleasant to talk to. It only becomes stalking if she isn't interested and you keep pursuing and showing up at her doorstep. Give yourself a chance to see if she is interested. If she's not, move on. 7 months divorced after 19 yrs isn't all that much time so don't expect great things....move slowly.
2007-07-08 20:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once, call her. That's why phone numbers are listed. Move on with your life and be happy.
2007-07-08 20:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a call and ask her if she would like to go get something to eat or a drink.she will let you know by the tone of her voice if she is interrested.
2007-07-08 20:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO for it!!! Give her a call and just tell her that you really enjoyed talkign to her. See where that leads.
2007-07-08 20:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up.
2007-07-08 20:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a complete idiot,go for it.
2007-07-08 21:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Julius C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋