Someone once told me that becuase I'm "fat" (which I consider myself full figured thanks) that I have no chance of getting with a guy unless he's poor desperate or old. It's a cruel thing to say frankly I'm over it. However is there some truth to this?
2007-07-08 13:13:50 · 24 answers · asked by Noree 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the record I eat healthy and work out 5x a week thank you and I've lost 30lbs
2007-07-08 14:09:07 · update #1
LOL NOOOOOOO I AM FLUFFY TO AND I AM 28 AND MEET AND MARRIED SOMEONE A YEAR AGO...AND THIS GUY IS SOOOO POPULAR IN OUR AREA SO I NEVER THOUGHT HE WOULD GIVE ME THE TIME OF THE DAY.........AND HE DID, HE SAID HE DOESNT CARE WHAT MY FIGURE LOOKS LIKE HE LOVES ME FOR ME....SO NOOOOO YOU CAN FIND SOMEONE......OH HE HAS A GOOD JOB AND HE TREATS ME LIKE A QUEEN.
2007-07-08 13:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by $martA$$.com 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ther is no truth to what u said, just because u are a full figured woman does not mean u cant get a man or guy ur age whoever said that to u is lying ,and inconsiderate. I know lots of full figured women and i've seen full figured women with guys .
2007-07-08 20:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)go on a diet... try just eating 2 healthy choice meals a day and some vitamins for a few months.. it goes quick.
2) most guys will have nothing to do with you unless they have self esteem problems but I have a few good looking friends that are dating fat girls (they have some self esteem issues though) so you should be able to find one. but seriously.. loose weight its better for you health and you'll feel much better when you fit in slutty looking clothes...though you may get sick of every retarded guy hitting on you. my ex was beautiful and If I was her Id have been annoyed at everyone gawking after about the first day
2007-07-08 20:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way...but the only guys who won't want you are the ones who are shallow and no brained because they don't have the courage to look inside and find a great person. You will get the guys who have great personalities because they looked beyond appearance, and that is awesome. The "skinny & pretty" girls get all the others because they look good to guys and that's the only reason they want them. Just wait for the right guy to come along. Good luck!
2007-07-08 20:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be mean, but a lot of guys don't like fat girls (not saying you are fat, I don't know you and have never seen you) but if you're fat then it might be harder to find someone. Just try and eat healtheir, cut down ont he mcdonalds, and maybe lose some weight.
2007-07-08 20:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mike Schneider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Everyone looks for something different in a boyfriend/girlfriend. And you need to find someone who is not interested in the outside appearance and is not vapid and shallow.
2007-07-08 20:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way !!! who ever told you this is just a jerk, and probably jealous of how beatiful you really are!!! they are just trying to get you down and depressed, do not listen to them!!!!
a nice guy will like you for your inner beuty and personality anyway, it's only the jerks who go for skinny, uptight sluts!!!
soo, don't get down in the dumps about it!!! your mr.right will come buy when you least expect it!!!
Ta Ta!!!
2007-07-08 20:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by maniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like all sorts of girls.
But people tend to go for those who are of the same level of genetics as them.
2007-07-08 20:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mandiex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look beauty is in the eye of the beholder. just because that one person says that thing. doesn't mean its true. I think there is someone out there for anybody. it sounds chessy i know but you can't believe everything you hear. inside evreybody is something BEAUTIFUL. trust me you'll find that person.
2007-07-08 20:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by posterboy257 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!
You define yourself, don't let others!
For alot of people, looks aren't everything. Look for the guy that goes beyond your looks, for the personality. :D
2007-07-08 20:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋