I have done it and everyone at my school likes it but i don't see why
anybody know???
2007-07-08 13:46:24 · 23 answers · asked by ~♥:Heart_Broken:♥~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Outside of a healthy marriage it's pretty shallow. It feels good for a brief time, but then what? Being able to build a family, fix the house, and other everyday experiences that are shared between two people that have commited to forever, only add to the experience in the bedroom. The passion and pleasure is only multiplied when companied with shared memories, trust, and commitment. That is why you can't see the greatness right now. It was designed to be fully understood with your spouse, not some guy in chemistry class.
2007-07-08 13:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by firewife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, not much. Most people are all talk when it comes to sex. And if you are still in school, you should really think twice before having sex. Do you really want to take the risk of getting pregnant? Just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean you should. And guess what, a lot of those people who claim they are doing it probably really aren't. Why do you think that guys always claim to have slept with tons of girls but girls say they haven't slept with many? It's really not worth the risk of pregnancy and STDs. I'm sure you have enough drama to deal with at school. Leave the sex drama for when you are older.
2007-07-08 20:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I know why you don't understand why. It's because you haven't found someone who knows how to do it right. If it is high school you are talking about, those guys are just learning themselves. Don't sleep around, but when you find someone you really care about trust, you can make learning really fun. If you have only done it a few times, it always sucks when you first start it, but then you do it again and again, and it gets better everytime. Don't worry i promise it does get better.
2007-07-08 20:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by ize4love07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? OMG.. a relationship is around 80 to 90 % about sex, if sex isn't good then the relationship wont last. That's why ppl go out of it to sleep with someone that satisfies them.
It feels good, it calms and soothes you, its good exercises and if you are ready for it, something beautiful is born 9 months later.
Sex is very important.
2007-07-08 21:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jose M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think sex is the best when it is with a person you truly connect with. I am guessing your young...and people at a young age (for the most part) have sex labeled as the Holy Grail and even when they do not like it, they say they do so that they are not different. What until you are older and with someone who will make it special and that you will enjoy it!
2007-07-08 20:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Gracie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it certainly feells good. But I'm guessing that your boyfriend wasn't terribly concerned with your enjoyment that's a common complaint with women, especially young ones with young boyfriends. Too many times the guys don't make any effort to satisfy their girl. You may need to experiment a bit with yourself to find out what you like. Then next time, make your boyfriend do that. Of course, the other problem may be that you just aren't into the guy, not really.
Good luck.
2007-07-08 20:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just as enjoyable as eating your favourite dessert....It is nice when you can have it especially with love.....but it is not that wounderful that you cannot live without it and like many desserts too much, too often you can be turned off by it.....
It is only heavenly if you attached some meaning into it like precious feeling between a husband and a wife together building a life as a celebration of their love towards each other...seriously think about it
2007-07-08 20:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by soundfamiliar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't like/want/crave/understand sex. Or at least they claim to.
Some people don't like it because there is childhood sexual abuse in their past.
Some people don't like it because they have chosen an inept and selfish partner.
Some people don't like it because they don't really "love" the person they're with.
MOST people don't get too much out of their first encounter--especially if it is the first encounter for both partners...
Relax and wait for a serious, adult relationship with someone you truly love--someone who will take the time to please you, not just himself. Then decide whether you "like it" or not.
2007-07-08 20:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its fun, its free, it burns calories, it raises seratonin levels, and it feels good. Other than that, yeah, totally overrated. One of the saddest things in my opinion is the way sex has been stigmatized to be seen as sinful.
2007-07-08 21:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by Will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the natural desire humans have to continue the species. But it is fun when you find someone that turns you on so much so that when you walk into a room, you don't have to use your hands to turn on the light.
2007-07-08 20:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by Blackjack 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋