Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

hey guys~

me and my girlfriend has been going out for almost a month now, i really love her alot, sometimes i always i love you in person, in txt and on msn! but for her, she hardly say it, i feel so insecure bout rather she really love me or not, i really cares bout her, in fact, i want to have a long term relationship with her, should i be worried?, im too scare to lose her, i cant see myself meeting another girl that is as speical as her, should i be expecting more from her or is that normal? and should i ease down on saying i love you? because im scare that the meaning will fade away, and how can u tell if she really really loves you??

thanks

2007-07-08 17:24:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never cheated on him ever and he thinks that because i cheated on a no good cheating man that i am doing the same thing. please clear this up for him.

2007-07-08 17:20:44 · 17 answers · asked by Matthew S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months and love eachother a lot. We share everything and are very close. He even knows my yahoo pass and all my family problems and etc etc he knows EVERYTHING. so todya he spent the day writing up his personal statement for admissions to med school (its just like wiritng an essay to get into college). when i asked him to let me see it bc it matters to me too -- he said no, and that he wanted his privacy. he said it was too embarassing and insists that im just invading his privacy. i told him that i love him and that there shouldnt be anything to be be embarrased about or hide, nor should there be a line between us, but he holds firm on his decision. ive been crying a lot and bah -- i just feel like maybe were not as close as i thought? he says hes like this with everyone but im not "everyone"

is he right? and what should i do? and how should i feel?

2007-07-08 17:19:51 · 11 answers · asked by sarahstaples789 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating this new guy for 5 months, hes sweet, caring all around good guy, people like him, I love him. We spend time together he takes me out, and just bought me a new phone. But something happened in his life with the mother of his child an altercation with her bf, now its been 3 weeks since Ive seen him and 2 weeks since weve talked on the phone. He wont answer my calls, emails or text messages. Havent seen him on Myspace in weeks. He emailed me a week ago saying he still loves me, and that he doesnt want to drag me into this mess. But if Im his lady then why cant he come to me? I emailed back saying I love you too its alright... then NOTHING!! No calls no email back. Is he lying to me? This relationship is still new so I dont know where he lives because he just moved. I do know where he works. Why would someone go from on to off in days? Is he hiding something? Im 27 hes in his mid 30's? He even talked about marriage and children. Hes a flake huh??!! What should I do?

2007-07-08 17:16:32 · 1 answers · asked by kiki 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 17:16:03 · 30 answers · asked by Shawny™ 4 in Singles & Dating

and wat exactly is your second cousin? what would i call my cousins son? I'm just so confused :)

2007-07-08 17:14:58 · 7 answers · asked by 123456789 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have gone out with him 4 times. He broke up with me all those 4 times. I'm just woundering how to be friends with him and hang out. But the problem that is keeping us from being friends is. I think he might still have feelings for me inside. what can I say to him to find out if he has feelings for me? what can I do to be a friend to him? thanks.

2007-07-08 17:13:41 · 7 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 17:13:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have gone out with him 4 times. He broke up with me all those 4 times. I'm just woundering how to be freinds with him and hang out. But the problem that is keeping us from being freinds is. I think he might still have feelings for me inside. what can I say to him to find out if he has feelings for me? what can I do to be a friend to him? thanks.

2007-07-08 17:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my guy friends asked me how's my suitors do? i told him that they no longer exists. he told me that he could be because i don't got one! he didn't mention the word 'joke only'.. is that a joke?

2007-07-08 17:09:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To make your bed comfortable?

2007-07-08 17:07:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i remember a girl i hade seen in my church, when i was about 16 yrs old, she was the most beautiful girl i ever seen, i never say anything to her because i was to shy at the time, but, when i seen her some years later, she told me she was married, and she ask me why i never said anything to her, because, at the time she was liking me too, they say the good ones always get away, is that true to you?

2007-07-08 17:07:14 · 20 answers · asked by hardybody111 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex dumped me a couple months ago. he said that his feelings might change at camp this summer? what can I ask him to find out if he still wants me?

2007-07-08 17:04:10 · 7 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my uncle just passed away and i cant get over it at all..next weekend is his birthday and i just dont think i can take it..i have tried to stop thinking about it but i cant!!..i never got to say goodbye..we were very close!!..what should i do to stop thinking about it?

2007-07-08 17:00:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 15 years old and my gfs turning 14 in 3 weeks and i dont no wat to get her for her birthday can anyone help me ?? also try to keep it within like $40-60 range thanks

2007-07-08 16:59:18 · 24 answers · asked by ryan g 1 in Friends

I invited him to hang out with me on Canada Day and he said he'd come, I waited all night and he never showed up. Tonight I invited him to my party and he said him and his friends would definately be here, and they never showed up. Is it normal to be pissed off at him?

2007-07-08 16:59:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he always plays video games and when he isnt.. he has friends over who trash the house. he always asks me to cook for him and is like obsessed with red bull. he stole my allowance too and gave my skinny jeans to his super skinny friend to wear, without my permisson!

2007-07-08 16:57:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-08 16:54:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is getting remarried. To an asshole. Who has made me and my sister's lives miserable.

2007-07-08 16:51:01 · 30 answers · asked by biteme 1 in Weddings

They have been in jail in prison for DUIs and drugs(meth and Marijuana and others) for almost all of their lives. Both of them are in jail again and I told her she shouldn't help anymore. She says it makes her feel good. She leaves a bible open and she believes maybe one day they will read it and change. Am I wrong for telling her that she should stop helping them or should I mind my own business? The one in prison hasn't been around for awhile but he will be getting out soon. The one in jail will probably be out in a few days. She says that he doesn't come around that much more but he is welcome to sleep there when he doesn't have any where else so I shouldn't be worried.

2007-07-08 16:49:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

currently 35 years old. We love each other and have a great time together. He plays with my daughter all the time. We do not live together. He has met my family, but only minimally and me the same with his. Our friends have never really met and they do not hang out together. We see each other once or twice a week. His mother currently lives with him due to an illness that makes her unable to work. I know this sounds very convulted, but I am trying to get all the facts out. After three years, the only real milestone that we have ever breached is the "I love you." I am not currently wanting to get married right now...I am divorced and do not wish to repeat it. I just do not know what to do. I want us to move on to another step, but he always acts like such a committment-phobe. What should I do? When I am with him, I always am so happy, but sometimes I see other couples who seem so much more connected than we are and it depresses me. Any advice?

2007-07-08 16:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 16:39:57 · 2 answers · asked by reseda1420 4 in Family

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2007-07-08 16:31:34 · 1 answers · asked by Tawnya 2 in Friends

My friend Amy is worried about her hubby, whom she can normally get a hold of by cell phone. She said that she has tried for the last 3 hours to get hold of him, just to see if he is ok and when to have his dinner ready. He works odd hours, electric company, and can get called out at night even. Most of his jobs that he has to go to comes across a special e-mail account and she can see where he is and where he is going. I guess tonight he had to drive an hour to a job, but he has been there longer then normal for this type of job AND no e-mail containing the paperwork for this job. She has her "feelings" that he is out messing around on her, and he is always hanging out with a "BAD GUY" she calls this man. He used to deal drugs, yeah, like the man my hubby works with. She is freaking out over here and I need words to comfort her.
BTW- she also found pornographic items in her hubby's work truck.

Please help me find the words to comfort her!
Thanks

2007-07-08 16:30:02 · 3 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Family

Ok, kind of stupid question but if a guy has neat handwriting, does that make him look 'gay'?

2007-07-08 16:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by thugster17 2 in Singles & Dating

we are having relationship from the last 1/1/2 year he is being gambling from the last 1 year but hr is really into it i did alot to change him but worthless.
now he wants 2 month time to get rid of gambling n said in this two monts i will play as much as i can n then he will stop.
the problem is that we are living together
tell me should i break up with him or give him time

2007-07-08 16:20:29 · 3 answers · asked by s 1 in Singles & Dating

My older sister has never been an older sister to me or my two younger sisters. She's only a daughter when she wants something from my parents. She lives with my grandparents instead of with her closer family because she knows if she moves in with us then she won't have access to the car whenever she wants to go partying, and whenver she needs money she know she won't be able to steal it from my mom's purse. She does anything to make herself feel better-even when it hurts others.

She always wants a piece of everything, but she won't lift a finger to get it. She expects everyone to hand it over to her like we owe her something. It's been like that forever. She is such a ****!!! To the point where we can't even speak to her anymore.

My parents are making money in comodoties. I don't want them to give her a dime. She's gonna be the first one over our house saying: "Well now you can buy me a car" or something. i don't want them to give her a dime!

What do I do?

2007-07-08 16:19:16 · 5 answers · asked by AyK 4 in Family

I am almost 14 years old and i have a bf, i have had the same one for almost 5 months, and he gave me my first kiss this past week. Do you think im too young to have a bf or am i just the right age? Thankx for all answers.

2007-07-08 16:07:36 · 42 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Singles & Dating

My grandmother and grandfather in laws both passed and now my husband's family is fueding over items they think should go to them. Me and my husband don't look at what happened as a way to get stuff, but the rest of the family cannot get passed it. What should we do when one family member is talking bad about another to us? I don't want my kids to see this happen and have them lose a relationship with a family member because of it also.

2007-07-08 16:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by maryanne b 2 in Family

If so, please tell me of it's effect on you.

2007-07-08 16:01:56 · 26 answers · asked by birdtennis 4 in Family