I have never cheated on him ever and he thinks that because i cheated on a no good cheating man that i am doing the same thing. please clear this up for him.
2007-07-08 17:20:44 · 17 answers · asked by Matthew S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like insecurity, or could be his own guilty conscience ...
2007-07-08 17:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think husbands do in general. If yours does that's something you need to pay attention to. Is there anything in your behavior that would lead him to be suspicious? From what you say, he knows that you did cheat in the past. Does he cheat himself? That's usually the most common reason to accuse a wife of cheating. This can really be a serious problem and I don't think anyone but you can clear it up for him.
2007-07-08 17:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most husbands think their faithful wife is cheating on them because most men just tend to be paranoid. Often times, after a man gets away with cheating, (as he is much less intuitive than his spouse) he starts to think what his wife could be doing behind his back. Other explanations could be something like, well, my best friends girlfriend has cheated on him since 7th grade, but he always ends up taking her back. If its happened before, its logical for a guy to assume it would happen again.
2007-07-08 17:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol Generally, when one party is experiencing some inscurities within the relationship adn starts to accuse or make allegations that the other party is cheating it is either because he has a guilty conscience or it is simply because he is insecure about the relationship as a whole. the relationship might be becoming more serious than what he might want or perhaps he is scared that he has finally found "the one".
in ll reality, it boils down to the trust issue.......if you don't have trust, honesty and communication in a relationship, then you really don't have the bases for one to form
2007-07-08 17:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by lilbeamlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The odds are if they are saying that you are cheating than they are the ones who are cheating. They say you are cheating to ease their mind. To convect them self they are in the right for what they are doing to you.
I found this is soon true when men say you are doing something it is really them doing it to you. Watch him real close to see if he is dumb enough to get locked in the house with his own lie. it is him who is cheating. I HOPE NOT BUT, GOOD LUCK
2007-07-08 17:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by julie.brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men usually accuse a woman of cheating when they are either feeling insecure or when they themselves are cheating. If you are accused for a long enough time, it is time to leave. There is no relationship without trust.
2007-07-08 17:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by amoroushotmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did it once. He wonders why you wouldnt do it again.
just because one person does something wrong doesnt make another wrong two rights. you where just as bad for cheating on a cheater instead of just dumping him and moving on honestly.
Thats what I think anyway, and what I think he is thinking. so he figures, you will "get back" at him if he ever wrongs you.
2007-07-08 17:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's the husband's own self esteem issues, a previous betrayal from another partner resulting in jealousy, or that they themselves have a guilty concious and transfer that onto the other spouse.
2007-07-08 17:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi..
They think you're cheating, when they are cheating themselves, or thinking about it..
So it's easier to lay the guilt on you!
Don't let him make you feel like you're the guilty one..
Take care!
2007-07-08 17:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust is essential to keep it;if you cheat,you are playing with trust.When a person talk about cheating is because there are some reasons and no normal behaviours.
2007-07-08 17:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they're the ones thinking about cheating or are cheating on their wives
2007-07-08 17:23:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋