My older sister has never been an older sister to me or my two younger sisters. She's only a daughter when she wants something from my parents. She lives with my grandparents instead of with her closer family because she knows if she moves in with us then she won't have access to the car whenever she wants to go partying, and whenver she needs money she know she won't be able to steal it from my mom's purse. She does anything to make herself feel better-even when it hurts others.
She always wants a piece of everything, but she won't lift a finger to get it. She expects everyone to hand it over to her like we owe her something. It's been like that forever. She is such a ****!!! To the point where we can't even speak to her anymore.
My parents are making money in comodoties. I don't want them to give her a dime. She's gonna be the first one over our house saying: "Well now you can buy me a car" or something. i don't want them to give her a dime!
What do I do?
2007-07-08 16:19:16 · 5 answers · asked by AyK 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No offense honey because I do understand how you feel. Been there and done that. But it isn't your money or your business what your parents give to who. Sorry. Stay out of it and live better than her.
2007-07-08 16:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Make sure your parents know how you feel. Don't be too negative because your sister is still your parents daughter. Let them know that they are not helping her by handing her money or items. If they want to do something for her, put the money in a trust for a few years when hopefully she will have outgrown her selfish ways. Remember though, it is your parents' money to spend how they wish.
2007-07-08 23:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by tim O 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your sister is somewhat a spoiled one with all of you sisters. Why don't you talk with your parents or grandparents about that. Because what their doing to your sister makes her life truly miserable. They thought because they can give her whatever she wants they are giving her all the best of material things but they don't realize the effect of what they are doing to her. Sooner or later she's going to ruin her life and be mean if she can't get whatever she wants. It's also being unfair you her sisters. Talk to your elders and explain your side for the sake of all of you not only your elder sister.
2007-07-08 23:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by ☺ĦЄŖ§ĦЄ¥☺ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, sorry that your family life is so messed up. Second, it's your parents' business what they do with their money. If they want to give it all away, whether to your sister, or to a charity, that's their business not yours.
2007-07-09 01:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep quiet and stay out of your parents business, they know who and how she is, and their decisions are on them not you
2007-07-12 20:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋