Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

in 2004 my boyfriends girlfriend died in a tragic car wreck, they were together for a couple of years and loved each other dearly.... he told me when she died he thought he would never love anyone like he loved her until i came along...he along with a lot of his friends tell me i am just like her...one time when we were arguing he said "you are playing games just like mandy"(that was her name)...he tells me he misses her a lot(which i understand i am not jealous)......i love him a lot and i know it is normal for him to miss her but i wanna make sure he loves me for me and not because i remind him of mandy....is this healthy that i am so much like her? your opinion please!

thanks in advance

2007-07-08 19:59:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend (girl) used to be really close. We would talk all night on the phone or aim each other all day.

But lately we haven't been talking. Her good friend came back from like a 2 month vacation. I try to talk to her and she really won't say much.

I was there when she was down and no one else was there for her but she just threw me to the side. Like I was a used tissue.

Does anyone know what I should do besides kill myself

2007-07-08 19:56:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, after almost 4 years, my ex-fiancee/boyfriend called it quits. Just out of nowhere! i REALLY need some cheering up! Any good, nice, cheer-up quotes?! Thanks you!

2007-07-08 19:49:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so my arrogant, and highly annoying attitude sister comes to visit. At first i'm like yes, and was happy. As soon as she shows up and starts her bragging, than cutting down on me when i'm 5 years younger, and have just yet become to have important stuff going on in my life, she than feels the need to compare how successful she is ( or thinks she is) and how i'm not compared to her. I of course am like kiss my *** and yeah i start a fight with the self centered *****.

She then has the nerve to come into my room, look at pictures and play with my dog roughly to were my dog throws up. I'm in the bathroom and what do i hear? "Adam come clean this up"...like what the hell? You did it, but it's my fault? I than get mad after her and my mom laugh about it. I ask her to leave and she says no, it's not your room it's mom's and you don't own it. I than freak out after the defiant little ***** thinks she can come into my house and not listen to what i say. Am i wrong or right?

2007-07-08 19:47:56 · 17 answers · asked by Curious mind 2 in Family

In such a way that she will not feel bad. This videoke microphone is very important to me and for over a year now took care of it and this is one of my past time to sing.

2007-07-08 19:47:43 · 3 answers · asked by Angel Yrra 1 in Friends

Why do some chicks think its funny for them to fart? It is the ultimate turnoff when girls fart. My girlfriend once ripped one in her sleep and I refused to sleep with her for a week

2007-07-08 19:46:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 19:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how is "i love you" different from "i'm in love with you"?

just wondering what you guys think about that. i haven't decided yet, sooo convince me! thanks!

2007-07-08 19:45:13 · 12 answers · asked by anonymiss. 3 in Singles & Dating

just curios if any of you were from either place? do you know anything about either one?

2007-07-08 19:44:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew a family years ago that did just that. The dad would walk around naked in front of his teenage daughters, the mom would walk around naked in front of the son, the kids would walk around naked. I even seen the kids run outside naked a few times.
I find it strange - the last thing i want to see is my mom and dad walking around naked. YUCK.
Am i just a Backwards American?

2007-07-08 19:39:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my sister has a myspace and so do i. i asked if i could be her buddy and sent her and invite online. she replied and said that she's not my sister but her picture was her and i took the picture that she put online. i asked her in person if i could be on her buddy list but she said she deleted her myspace and doesnt go on it anymore. i know she still goes on it because it said that she was online today! i've seen her myspace before and it's kinda bad. i just want to be apart of her life a litte.

she's 19 and i'm 11.

2007-07-08 19:38:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do little lies have a tendency to turn into bigger lies in the future? I have caught my husband out on several occasions with little lies, what disturbs me is how convincing he looks when he is trying to get out of it. If I did not have eye witness facts on these occasions I would have thought it was all in my head. Which in the past he has admitted to letting me think that. Our marriage is in marriage counseling for the second time. I have even seen him do stuff with my own eyes and then confront him about it and he flat out denies it. I'm starting to wonder if I really do know this man. I am trying to fix our marriage, he is too. But how is it supposed to get off the ground if he continues to shut me out and lie to me?

2007-07-08 19:37:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

WEVE MESSD ARND FOR A WHILE BUT NOW ITS BEEN ABT A YEAR IVE FALLiN FOR HiM...HE HAS A GIRL NOW....HOW DO I TELL HiM....WITHOUT FREAKiN HZIM OUT?!?!?!
PLZZZZ HELP

2007-07-08 19:37:06 · 17 answers · asked by TeArZ 1 in Singles & Dating

I can think of a hundred better ways for a couple to spend all the money that goes into a wedding. Do people just do what the tv tells them to do?

2007-07-08 19:36:35 · 13 answers · asked by Stacia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've made a few posts before about this. So i'll cut it down, I like this girl, whenever we hang out she's always flirting, sitting next to me wherever we go, making jokes and everything.

So I finally gather up the courage and tell her that I like her, but she gives me the "I like you as a friend" thing. It hurt... So some days pass and i'm in her room when we're watching tv and she goes for a kiss (on lips) but her damn little brother comes in and ruins it all cause I had to leave.

So, does she like me more than a friend? Cause I asked her about it again and she giggled and said "Yea I know" then grabbed me arm to sit and watch some tv.

2007-07-08 19:36:10 · 8 answers · asked by Brian 3 in Singles & Dating

I am amazed at how people plan their weddings to be just like everyone else's wedding or just like the magazines tell you.

why don't more people go for something unique to them and their partner? why are brides so damn cookie-cutter???

2007-07-08 19:33:51 · 12 answers · asked by Stacia 2 in Weddings

ed on me i feel sick?

2007-07-08 19:31:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month and it was going great until yesterday wen i realized dat he doesnt treat me like his girlfriend.......i just feel like one of his friendz that he talk 2 every once in a while......idk wat 2 do......i feel like i havent given him a chance 2 prove himself yet cuz we havent hung out yet....so wat should i do??????

2007-07-08 19:31:24 · 7 answers · asked by ~Kinky~ 3 in Singles & Dating

Here is what really happened!

im not really a husband and i dont have a wife..
im wife's son and the husband is my step dad
listen carefully "the story is backward!!" MY MOM lend MONEY to MY STEP DAD and my step dad wont do any ****!!!

Im trying to help my mom out!!
My step dad always say "i will write promissory note" but i never seen one!!!

you think he is setting my mom up!!?

He has 3 kids 8 years old, 11 years old, 14 years old.
and IM 17
I cant let this happen to my mom!!!

My step dad owes her 100,000.00 in cash and checks
but my mom did not tell me she has proof or not.
she does not want me to interfere but.. she is not doing anything....

For record my mom has a proof that my dad cheated on her before!!!
you think that might help??

I really dont know what to do?

My step dad owns cleaners and that happened because my mom lend money to my step dad

She said half is under her name

So best solution is Get our 100,000.00 and half the cleaner and Consolation money!!

i reall

2007-07-08 19:30:48 · 3 answers · asked by n_6868 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 19:30:15 · 21 answers · asked by *Duke*my*baby* 1 in Weddings

Do you think that you are more likely to have Unconditional Love towards a spouse or towards a child?

2007-07-08 19:29:04 · 6 answers · asked by paul s 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an observation the other day at a doctors office for a job and it was between me and this other girl the same age as me and come to find out they hired her over me which i dont understand why because when they called me to tell me to come in for the observation to wear scrubs if i had any. Well i did and i wore them. The other girl didnt. I was also there on time and she was late!! At the end of the observation they told us they were gonna make a decision and call us later on who they picked.. well when they called me they said they hired her b/c they thought she had more medical experience and asked me if i wanted them to hold my application just in case. I told them yes but I felt like going off on her and just getting mad! They paid me but i dont even know how to pick up the check b/c i didnt listen to what she told me to do b/c i was so mad. i just hate those ppl and dont even want to work for them if they ever call me! now how do i find out how to get that paycheck?

2007-07-08 19:28:11 · 2 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Singles & Dating

i have twins, i feed them change them, hold them,
but because i dont take as long to change them she thinks i dont do a good enough job. they are always clean and smell good and if they get a rash then i try to do what i can to make it go away

2007-07-08 19:27:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had flashed this guy at work a week ago. we both got suspended and then I contacted him thru myspace. he said he forgave me then I told him he could call if he wanted its not like I said "you must call or you will die in 7 days". then after that he took a two week leave of absence and occasionaly comes in to work to talk with other coworkers. he just pretends I dont exist. He never says hi or anything and before all this happended he would always want to be around me and vise versa. and I think he knows that I ask questions about him on yahoo answers.

2007-07-08 19:25:32 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel The Beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know. : ) besides, I think "some" of them are cute!

2007-07-08 19:24:30 · 5 answers · asked by Awesome Angela ™ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with J for almost 6 years. We both love each other very much. We have so much fun together, enjoy our time together, and respect and appreciate each other. He had been married for 25 years, I had been married for 10 years. Marriage is a sacred commitment to both of us. We spoke about marriage about 4 years ago, and he said he could never say never, but he doesn't think he would remarry again. I have never pressed the issue further. I just enjoyed our tiime together, and thanked the Lord for sending him to me. Actually, at this moment in my life, I am not ready to marry, but, I know that I will not stay content just being his "girlfriend" indefinately. The problem is--- I know that if I push, he will flee, so I don't want to push. Now MEN, I need to pick your brains. How should I approach this, what could your lady do that would make you rethink your decision? If you truly loved your lady, would you be willing to lose her?

2007-07-08 19:23:45 · 11 answers · asked by jahulobo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just would like to know if it is wrong of me to have romantic feeling for this woman

2007-07-08 19:22:47 · 13 answers · asked by hopeing 1 in Singles & Dating

I am off to college in a month, and I met the man who I know will be my husband. I have thought over this, prayed over our relationship and I know in my heart and mind that we will. We've been through so much and I know matter what I will end up with him, but I just know that there will be temptations out there. How do I remain faithful and patient for my lover? How can we learn to trust each other more? I need very helpful and beneficial advice, thanks!

2007-07-08 19:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by Myanna513 3 in Singles & Dating

my future mother in law is having a big problem because I dont want children at my wedding ceremony, I offered to have a wedding 'sitter' in a room of the church...but she didnt really go for that either. To make things worse...I think she and my fiance's sister really dont like me because I am not catholic. My fiance is very supportive and tells me not to let them bother me because he doesnt like catholicism either...should I just tell them that its the 'sitter' way or the highway about our wedding?

2007-07-08 19:20:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-08 19:20:04 · 6 answers · asked by oscar l 1 in Family