iM FALLiN FOR HiM...HOW DO i TELL HiM W-OUT HiM FREAKiN OUt??

Question

WEVE MESSD ARND FOR A WHILE BUT NOW ITS BEEN ABT A YEAR IVE FALLiN FOR HiM...HE HAS A GIRL NOW....HOW DO I TELL HiM....WITHOUT FREAKiN HZIM OUT?!?!?!
PLZZZZ HELP

Answer 1

Just tell him how you feel.He won't freak out.I've done this before and the guy actually broke up with her for me!So just give it a shot!GOOD LUCK!!<3

Answer 2

Well its a good thing u2 didnt get married yet. Im married(with a newborn) and kind of in the same boat as me except that I think he is cheating and we only been married for a month. Look my story is long. if you need someone to talk to email me. Also read my last post but as far as how you are feeling- if you are feeling turned off by him dont go through with the wedding. If you want to make it work then try counseling or try things to spice up the relationship. if he is putting you down I think its better to be alone. He should make you feel good about yourself- I feel like I am answering my own question

Answer 3

Im a guy who has had this happen to me, so ill give it to you the best way I feel will help you out here. In my experience I was just bluntly asked out by a girl with 4 of her friends tagging along behind her giggleing and haveing a blast. This made me think she was very imature and wasent really serious enough for a relationship. As long as you avoide the the dumb blond bubblegum girl style of asking a guy out you will do fine. Hint that you like him, go say hi to him, dont just sit back stare and daydream, or he may think your creepy. Just take the middle path and go for it the most steddy way you can, and really think about it when people say be yourself dont just let those words go in one ear and out the other. Be who you are and if he likes that person your ment to be, if he dosent like it, you had best forget him and find another, I hope I could help, :)

Answer 4

The game is hard cos he has a girlfriend and it makes one year you know each other.. Cos normally, u don't have to SAY things. You just have to make him FEEL you are open. A guy will kiss a girl when he feels she's 'ready', not because she will have told him she fell for him : it's weird, too fast (what would you think about a guy talking about marriage in the first five minutes ? Yes, this way, you will freak him out).
Become a part of his life, and when you are with him, don't talk about contextual things (weather, job...) : talk about life in general, interests, etc...
Become a part of his life. Phone him just to talk abou anything.
When he talks about his girl friend, tell him she's lucky. Nothing else.
And if he never talks about her.... It means u have a real chance.
But if he doesn't pay attention to you, or if he's just friendly, neglect him. Talk to him, smile, touch him while you talk to him... Then ignore him : make him miss you. If then he gives you attention, smile again and touch him. Call this mental manipulation if you want. I prefer talking about seduction.
Good luck girl.
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Answer 5

Hi There,

Thats a toughie. Men get freaked out about the silliest things, so this might do it too. Maybe you should give him subtle flirty signs, touch his arm, laugh at his jokes, and then say, 'it's a pity we din't go anywher with what we had 'coz God knows we'd be great together'.

Don't seem desperate. I know how it feels to be in love and not be able to tell the other. Make it subtle, plan it out carefully. You dont want to seem over anxious, just cool.

Good Luck and God Bless.

Answer 6

Well if it was just sex from the start he mite look at you like," are you serious"? But you should have put it on the table a year ago like," hey I'm digging you alot before we have sex is this going anywhere? Or what I do to see if a man is into me, I just straight up ask him how does he feel about me. Exspecially if we've been messing around for awhile. But in this case he has a girlfriend now so maybe you waited to late. And it is very hard to be friends with someone who you have feelings for. Just don't get in between his relationship with his girlfriend. And if he's like really into her don't hurt yourself and tell him. But if you know in your heart for a fact there is still a flame between you to you should tell him. DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM AND THEIR STILL TOGETHER.

Answer 7

ur place is a bit complicated.if u say i love you just like that its going to be trouble.

u have to try to get a little sign that maybe he likes you,before blurting out the secret.

and maybe try to joke with him,like say "what if i love you would u break up with ur girl?!?" something like that then say it was a joke!

if he takes it seriously there is a chance he likes you if he laughs probably not!

and u have to be carefull not to just say i love you because he has a girlfriend.u need to make sure first!so nobody gets hurt!


and nxt time if u think the ryt guy is with you,be confident and tell him...in days like this guys r a bit shy!


good luck!

Answer 8

That happend to me about two years ago. NO JOKE ! what i did was text mesg him the truth and i put heartsat the the end ♥♥♥ . And he was dating a girl but he left her for me. Now were on our way to High School and he wants to F*** me. I just asked a question 5min ago should i have sex with him. Can u answer it.

Answer 9

No do not tell him. If you've been messing around for a year there were plenty of times he could have said somthing if he wanted to take things to another level. Anyway you tell him will prolly freak him out...

Answer 10

Be blundt. You can't wait all your life. don't make him cheat on his girl though thats not fair to her. just tell him and if they break up yall could get together