Family & Relationships - 8 July 2007

i'm pretty sure my bf is cheating on me. i have not see it with my own eyes but my most trusted friend in the whole world told me that he saw my boyfriend kissing his ex last night! i dont know what to do... any advice

2007-07-08 18:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you know if some boy is just using you for action when you're not even going out? i mean..we do talk about sex (sometimes) but we also talk about other things..random things like bunnies,what we do and all that although we don't get to spend alot of time together. and he talks about me to his friends and stuff. and he's sort of shy around me. we're moving sort of fast..but not that fast. you know? but i can't tell.i trust him and all,but i just wanna be careful too. so please help me?

2007-07-08 18:56:21 · 3 answers · asked by cookie_monster 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel very disapponted and hurt, but most of al confuse, because I just found that my husband read pornographic magazines, wich make me feel that Im not women enough or god enough for him. I feel very hurt because even when I'm not as young an pretty as I used to, I still feel that I was pretty, Im 28yr and he is 35yr, we have sex 1 or 2 per day, I have lots of sexy lingery from Victoria Secret, etc. I do belly dance and use cupDD and I'm size M, I know I'm not thin but definetely I'm not ebesse or ugly, still it seems is not enough to him. I'm feeling miserable, what else can I do? I have tryed to keep this marriage interesting for both, Im a very creative person and never feel or sex life was bad, he even say often that is soo good, but still, why is he doing this to me, I'm realle hurt, I don't even want to see his face, really feel that he cheat on me on some way. am I wrong? what to do?

2007-07-08 18:55:35 · 17 answers · asked by desperatehwife07 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I have been friends for a long time now and I think we both like each other. I asked her out on a date once and she said yes. I think we have that connection. How do I ask her or start a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with her?

2007-07-08 18:55:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how much do you think is too much?

2007-07-08 18:53:49 · 13 answers · asked by thepinkpipster 3 in Singles & Dating

if iwant to be father one day....how can i see if a woman is a potential good mother?

2007-07-08 18:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would make you crazy and leave you wanting more?
Either physically or verbally...after the date is over and you go home...what would make you determined to see that woman again...what did she do that kept you up all night fantasizing about the NEXT date?

2007-07-08 18:50:39 · 15 answers · asked by Starfire 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 18:49:55 · 7 answers · asked by Cliff 6 in Singles & Dating

I found this guy that i am total in love with and hes comeing to see me in like 2 weeks ! and my family is scared that hes some wierdo just because i meet him online! But what they dont understand is that im really in love with him and that i feel that i could spend the rest of my life with him and that hes not really a bad guy!!

2007-07-08 18:49:54 · 4 answers · asked by angelbrat18_1989_2009 2 in Singles & Dating

sum times we text and i can't find the right words to put him in the "mood" what are sum sayings or phrases that will turn him on? Get him horny?

2007-07-08 18:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by Becca H 2 in Singles & Dating

When I divorced my ex, he told me that at my age (37) and the fact that I had a child, no one would ever want to date or more specifically marry me. (Altho he hooked up with somebody 3 1/2 years my senior...)

2007-07-08 18:47:53 · 18 answers · asked by D Michelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-08 18:45:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 go out with some other girl he just met. He cheats on everyone including me hes mean and rude and i dont like him, I need a way to break them up and fast! She doesnt believe anyone that hes going 2 cheat on her but he will like he does 2 everyone. Ok so help!

2007-07-08 18:45:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been chatting, emailing & talking to this fellow on the internet. And we really liked each other. But we didnt really have this formality that we couldn't date each other. It's just we liked each other. Just like friends who likes each other but can't be together kinds thing. Admirers shall I say. We started talking sweet and sending each others emails.

Now I meet this guy, and I'm really inlove with him. Things are getting serious. I don't wanna chat with him anymore? What should i do?

Thanks for the help. Honest answers are welcome.

2007-07-08 18:45:37 · 5 answers · asked by --- 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this hotty at a bar we talked and kissed all night. Things were gellin. Chemistry was hot. We were fully makin out on the patio. it was crazy. I asked her to come back to my place. she politely said "not tonight" which I saw coming but instead gave me her number. I called her the following weekend and we arranged a date. this is when **** hit the fan. I called her to get directions to pick her up and she totally blew me off. She didnt pick up. I tried calling her one more time the next day to ask her "whats up" and still she didnt pick up. Whats the deal ladies. I havent talked to her since

2007-07-08 18:40:52 · 11 answers · asked by dude11 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad is going to kick my 18 yr old sister out of the house because she's rude & disrespectful...( I'm 20yrs old)....He also works a swing shift so he's ALWAYS stressed out. His stress level is getting higher & higher & he said he feels like he's dying. Plus my mom always seems to take up for my sister when she's wrong so my mother is NO help. I'm worried. How can someone destress themselves, & do any of you know how I can find a good therapist to help my dad deal with stress?????

2007-07-08 18:39:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-08 18:38:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So!

I've been with this guy for about a month, things are going great, we both really care about each other and are very physically and emotionally attracted to each other. I feel the sexual tension between us (in a good way!) all the time but we haven't done anything other than making out...

He has no idea I'm a virgin but also hasn't tried to do anything with me. He's very respectful. I want to tell him I'm a virgin soo bad but I want a clever, light-hearted way to tell him. Any suggestions?

Thanks in advance!

2007-07-08 18:28:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very confused about this issue and thought if I could answer some thought provoking questions it might help me on this issue.

2007-07-08 18:26:41 · 8 answers · asked by sisterwater92 2 in Singles & Dating

i am in a relationship with someone else everthing is good but i find myself still thinking about him what do i do its driving me crazy

2007-07-08 18:26:24 · 8 answers · asked by soldout4christ 2 in Singles & Dating

This is my first marriage and I am scared to death !! Does it get any easier once the day comes ?

2007-07-08 18:25:55 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 in Weddings

I have 2 best friends , 1 I knew for 20yrs and the other for 13yrs , I chose my friend of 20yrs to be Maid of Honor. How do I tell my other friend she's not MOH w/o hurting her feelings ? She already gets jealous that my other friend is in the wedding and is helping me out or giving me ideas . I don't want to hurt her feelings but she is really getting to me.

2007-07-08 18:22:25 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 in Weddings

Well my Freshman year I had a great time, I met a lot of new friends and it was fun. But when Sophtmore year came around one of my best friends moved to my area and went to my school. I was really excited at first, and I started hanging out with him instead of my old friends because he just moved into a new area. Eventually I lost touch with my old friends, and my old friends made other friends. And I'm starting to get annoyed my best friend, because of stupid arguments, and lets just say he knows how to piss me off. He's pretty much always been like this but I was able to handle it before since I only saw him once a week. Now that I'm with him at school everyday high school life isn't enjoyable. My dad asked me if I wanted to change high schools recently out of nowhere. I haven't told any of my parents about this, and I found it odd that he aked me this. I'm really starting to think if I should go or not, its going to be hard starting over. But I know it can defintely be worth it.

2007-07-08 18:19:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, what's most important to you in a woman? Her looks, her personality, her intelligence, etc...

2007-07-08 18:17:29 · 12 answers · asked by Starfire 3 in Singles & Dating

while making out with a girl for only the second time, she grabbed your crotch? I really want to do it...but don't know how he'll react.

2007-07-08 18:16:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. We have an amazing relationship and I couldn't ask for a better man. My delema is that I have recently had between 10-15 friends get engaged or married. Several of them have been dating much less time than my boyfriend and I have. For some reason this is very hard for me. When I go to a wedding, view their wedding photos, or give advice on planning I can't help but think it's not fair that these girls are getting married while they've been with another guy in the amount of time I've been dating my boyfriend.

We've disscussed marriage and I know that some day we're going to get engaged, but how do I keep my mind off of it in the mean time when it's all around?

2007-07-08 18:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by prschltchr_2007 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-08 18:14:14 · 22 answers · asked by PuppyLove 2 in Family

My husband and I have been fighting and he said that he doesn't think he loves me anymore about three weeks ago. Since then nothing has really changed, so we're doing a trial separation for the week. He's going to be staying at his parents for the week while they're gone to the beach and I'm going to stay here at home with our nine month old son and we're not going to have any contact at all. I'm wondering.. was this a good idea? I've just run out of ideas and I love him so much. I just want him to realize what it is he'll be giving up if he decides to leave, and hopefully miss me and come home and everything will be okay. I've been torn up for three weeks and I'm about to break. I need some idea of whats going to happen yet he refuses to discuss anything with me. He just wants to ignore it, but how is that helping? I'm scared that this was a bad idea and that he might realize he's happier without us.. what do you think?

2007-07-08 18:13:24 · 2 answers · asked by ... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-07-08 18:11:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm not single, I've been in a happy relationship for 3 years. But, most of my friends are single or who are in very casual relationships.

I find that a good majority (not all) are very loose in the sexual aspects of their relationships. Now, I believe in pre-marital sex. I'm not against it, but there is a difference between having sex in a meaningful relationship and then having casual sex.

I find a lot of my friend have sex in casual ways. When I was younger, I had a one night stand. I regretted it and have never done it since. I disrespected myself that night. I learned a valuable lesson. I was very young about 20. The girls that are my friends are 23/24 years old. Don't girls get smarter about sex and relationships as they get older. It seems like my friends are becoming more dumb in their sexual relationship as they get older. One of my friend's new (only 3 week old relationship) cheated on her w/ some random girl. My friend took him back with in two

2007-07-08 18:09:17 · 9 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Other - Family & Relationships