i'm pretty sure my bf is cheating on me. i have not see it with my own eyes but my most trusted friend in the whole world told me that he saw my boyfriend kissing his ex last night! i dont know what to do... any advice
2007-07-08 18:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be grateful you found out in time. DO NOT confront him about this--this would only put YOU in a weakened position--you DO NOT WANT TO BEG or start crying. Call him up, speak slowly, you may want to practice first, and say: "I'm sorry (insert his name) but I need to be on my own for a while. We need to stop seeing each other. Hope you understand. Good luck and good bye." Then hang up.
This puts YOU in control. YOU dumped HIM. Do NOT give him any reasons for why YOU ARE DUMPING HIM. Keep it short and sweet. Do not give him any chance to react, he will only end up lying to you more.
Do not sit around a cry over this guy. He is obviously not finished with his previous relationship. When people are really in love with you they do not cheat on you. Remember this is a boyfriend NOT a husband. This is a clue of how he will treat you in the future, If you somehow did get back together. Once a cheater always a cheater. One goes through a lot of clowns sometimes before they find their soul mate. He is out there for you. Believe in yourself.
2007-07-08 19:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Alea S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his ex. Talk to her if you guys are okay. But to confront him say " I know you were cheating on me with ((his ex))" You were kissing her & i think its best if were just freinds. If he says no i wasnt ask him where he was the night it happend. You should be able to tell if hes lieing
2007-07-08 19:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by KyyBug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes him then she might be making it out but if u really trust her hurt him before he can hurt you
2007-07-08 19:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋