2007-07-08 18:45:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO...How could you trust someone you has??? You cant...
2007-07-08 19:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women ASK men to lie CONSTANTLY. And guess what . . . JUST LIKE YOU THEY TRY AND BLAME A MAN FOR IT.
In TOO MANY COMMON situations, women prefer a dash of ******** (a.k.a "what she wants to hear") rather than the TRUTH. And every man knows it.
Dont believe it?? (lol!) No . . . sometimes I just don't believe it either.
Example of questions women WANT you to LIE about (or AT LEAST tell them what they "WANT TO HEAR"):
--> "Were you checking that girl out??". There is nothing wrong with him saying "YES I WAS... SO??". But MANY women will act as though he cheated right there and in MOST cases would rather hear a LIE. "No! No! Not at all!! You are the only woman I ever notice". Please . Gimme a break.
--> Does my A-S look fat in these pants??
No woman wants to hear "Yeah, a little. Try the other ones on."
--> Are you saying I'm fat??
The only correct answer is "Are you saying you are NOT??"
LMAO!
--> "Do you love me??"
No woman wants to hear "Well actuallly, no I don't love you, but so far you seem really nice" , even though its totally non- offensive and completely true.
--> (If he loves her long hair and told her so many times and she cuts it off) . . . "How do you like my new haircut?".
No woman wants to hear "Well, since you asked, I preferred your hair before" , even though its totally non- offensive and completely true.
Women will even PHRASE THE QUESTION so that a man has NO CHOICE but to LIE.
Example: They will not ask "Do YOU THINK I am pretty??" they will ask " AM I pretty??". Which is not the same thing at all , is it.
Say "NO you are not" one time (because its USUALLY an unattractive woman who will ask this retarded question anyway), and then have that woman tell you she would rather hear the truth.
LOL!!
Fascinating, when you think about it carefully, isn't it?
"ABOVE ALL, WE HATE BEING LIED TO." --> No you don't . If that were true you wouldn't constantly ASK US to do it all the time.
FACT: WHAT WOMEN HATE MORE THAN A GUY THAT LOOKS THEM IN THE FACE AND LIES . . . IS A GUY THAT LOOKS THEM IN THE FACE, AND TELLS THEM THE TRUTH!
Anyone who says differently, is LYING TO YOU.
Dont blame a man for lying to you . . . particularly if you ASKED him to.
:)
2007-07-09 01:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust is a HUGE issue in any relationship. You can't really have a true relationship if it is not an honest one. If they lie to you repeatedly (depending on the lies), they are not respecting you.
You could still love them, but you need to respect yourself and not allow that behavior from them. If this is a partner, you are better off letting them go.
2007-07-09 01:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what was the lie, and why did he lie to you. Did he mean it? or did he not? Did he just lied to you because he doesn't want to hurt you or he purposely lie to you? Something like that happen to me last month, a few days later my bf left left with his family to vacation, I am having a very hard time also. But I realize if I love him enough, I can forgive him.
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2007-07-09 01:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by choco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will still love them even if u know they'd lied to u repeatedly..u will still love them even if u know that they dont love u anymore..u will still ove them without any reason and u never expect anything...that is love..
2007-07-09 01:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by sil3nt_h3art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may still love the person. You may feel like you never knew them, or feel really angry and not know why. It will be because you loved the guy or girl. But it DOES NOT mean that you have to put up with it. You do not have to settle.
Learn!!! and move on...
2007-07-09 01:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by QTP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes because if you loved them before you knew about the lies, then you love the person you thought they were not necessarily the person they turned out to be. You end up loving the idea of who they use to be to you.
2007-07-09 01:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by babii grl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldnt call it love anymore I would say. Depends on the lies I guess
2007-07-09 01:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes one can do that. I have seen one of my friends still
hoping for her man to return. He had cheated on her
but still she loves him. Well in my case, ive never been
in that situation.
2007-07-09 01:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by ananthforu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but only if they are willing to deal with their lies and consciously try to change. only after you can see the change in their ways.
2007-07-09 01:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the feeling of love may still be there but it is not been reciprocated , meaning this guy does not respect you to tell you the truth, gal, i now you love him but if you continue to c him he will disrespect you more. God loves you more
2007-07-09 01:51:39 · answer #11 · answered by sally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋