This is my first marriage and I am scared to death !! Does it get any easier once the day comes ?
2007-07-08 18:25:55 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm not scared to marry him lol , I think I worded it wrong .. I know this is what I want to do but I am nervous !! Is it normal to be nervous weeks before ?? Is this wedding jitters ?
2007-07-08 18:37:34 · update #1
I plan to be with my fiancee forever thats why I am marrying him , but I said 1st marriages because there are alot of ppl in the world who has been married 3 times or more . So for those who have been married more than once I want to know were they scared the 1st time.
2007-07-08 18:39:16 · update #2
yes, i think it's happen to anyone. but you can sure that in your wedding day, you can't even think about it. it will flow, and when you realized, it's done / over.
2007-07-08 18:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by miraclebeliever99 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you mean 1st marriages? I believe that you should only marry the guy that you can stand to be around for more then 10 minutes at a time and love with everything in your body and not give in to any other temptations. I guess the first time going down the isle would be scary I haven't done it yet so I wouldn't know just yet! Getting up and making the biggest commitment of your life in front of everyone that you care about and have friendships with but you know I think the thing that should be going through your head when your going down the isle is I love him and now he is going to be mine all mine and love that fact! Then it might not be so scary. if your scared let your soon to be know what is going on!
2007-07-09 01:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't scared at all. Are you sure you want to do this? A good friend asked me this question on the way to the rehearsal and I didn't even hesitate when I said yes, he's the one and I can't wait to marry him. The fact that you mention 1st marriages makes me think that you don't take marriage seriously enough. I never even thought about the fact that it was my first marriage, in my mine it was just my marriage the only one I'll ever have. You should definitely rethink the whole marriage thing.
2007-07-09 01:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a little nervousness is VERY different from being scared; make sure you figure out which term really applies to your feelings...
Some nervous excitement is totally normal - scared is not.
2007-07-09 08:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only get married once. If it is difficult now... then DON'T do it. Wait till you are in a situation where it is fun@!
2007-07-09 01:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rockstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suspect because it's kinda like when you go to the Dentist for the first time...-The anticipation is usually WORSE than the actual experience! :) Good luck!
2007-07-09 01:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋