My husband and I have been fighting and he said that he doesn't think he loves me anymore about three weeks ago. Since then nothing has really changed, so we're doing a trial separation for the week. He's going to be staying at his parents for the week while they're gone to the beach and I'm going to stay here at home with our nine month old son and we're not going to have any contact at all. I'm wondering.. was this a good idea? I've just run out of ideas and I love him so much. I just want him to realize what it is he'll be giving up if he decides to leave, and hopefully miss me and come home and everything will be okay. I've been torn up for three weeks and I'm about to break. I need some idea of whats going to happen yet he refuses to discuss anything with me. He just wants to ignore it, but how is that helping? I'm scared that this was a bad idea and that he might realize he's happier without us.. what do you think?
2007-07-08 18:13:24 · 2 answers · asked by ... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should rush into couples therapy. Having this break may not have been a good idea, but sometimes distance really does make the heart grow fonder. I wish you the best of luck
2007-07-08 18:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Here 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to change your attitude and make him think this is just what you wanted all along and take his son to the beach with his new stepdad to be. He will fold like a deck of cards.
2007-07-09 01:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by underdog 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋