Clever way to tell him I'm a virgin?

Question

So!

I've been with this guy for about a month, things are going great, we both really care about each other and are very physically and emotionally attracted to each other. I feel the sexual tension between us (in a good way!) all the time but we haven't done anything other than making out...

He has no idea I'm a virgin but also hasn't tried to do anything with me. He's very respectful. I want to tell him I'm a virgin soo bad but I want a clever, light-hearted way to tell him. Any suggestions?

Thanks in advance!

**I KNOW HE'S NOT A VIRGIN**

**HE DOESN'T KNOW I AM.. THE REASON HE HASN'T TRIED ANYTHING WITH ME IS BECAUSE IN THE BEGINNING WE SAID WE WOULD TAKE THIS WHOLE THING SLOW**

=)

Answer 1

Dont be light hearted. If he is sincere about you, he wont think it is a joke, but rather something amazing and special. Joking about it will either make him seem like you dont care about it, or may even make him believe you arent one (Depending on the way you do it)

So, my suggestion would be to in a way, sincerely let him know your a virgin. You can even be as casual and say something like "Yeah, I'd always hoped my first time would be with someone as special as you"

Adding that extra compliment makes things that better in a relative standpoint.

Answer 2

It shouldn't be an issue to tell him that you are a virgin. Some guys like that girls are virgins - hopefully in the way that they can appreciate that you have not been previously promiscuous in any way and he isn't at risk for anything. But that doesn't mean you can't be. You should be comfortable enough to just tell him, "Hey, I've never had sex with a guy before." and see what he says! Just be careful, you do need to make sure he's the one you would want to lose your virginity to if you are planning to have sex someday with him.

Answer 3

Well, think about this... he is going to find out about it eventually anyway so you might as well tell him. In relationships trust & honesty is key. You need to make sure to tell him a.s.a.p. Play a little question game. Start asking him questions & then he will ask you questions, etc. Eventually, ask him this, " Have you ever dated a virgin?" If he says no... then say, " Well, you are right now. " If he says yes... " Just say, well I'm one of those people..." Just make it casual and make sure to be confident in yourself. He may be a little shocked at first, but overall he will be happy that you were brave enough to tell him. You should do fine, I believe in you!

Good luck!

Answer 4

You don't need a clever, light-hearted way to tell him. If it was important enough to you to keep your virginity, the subject isn't a joke.

Do you suspect he'll laugh about it? If he does, dump him. Dump him now.

Tell him straight out about this serious matter. It is part of who you are and what you place a value on.

Answer 5

Find a suitable place n time, for u both to spend alone. Let him makes his first move, dont react or response to him while u both have body contact, then u already show him tat ur a virgin..

Answer 6

I don't know, but how about this? I am a guy in my mid-30s who is still a virgin and people keep saying don't let the future female know, and I am like, why? Isn't that insincere?

Answer 7

Don't tell him...then he'll just wanna do it. Virgins are like NASCAR championship trophies to men. Do you wanna be run around the track until you fall apart. Just become a nun...youll be better off.

Answer 8

i say dont worry about it untill the subject comes up or you feel like its going to happen. and when it does tell him straight up! that you are a virgin and you want your first time to be special

Answer 9

well i guess there is no easy way to tell him but to just tell him ur a virgin but i dont really no another way good luck

Answer 10

be like what would you do if you found out you were going out with a virgin? or be like.... my friend is going out with this guy and he doesnt know she is a virgin. how would you suggest she tell him. and after he says what he says, do that.