Well my Freshman year I had a great time, I met a lot of new friends and it was fun. But when Sophtmore year came around one of my best friends moved to my area and went to my school. I was really excited at first, and I started hanging out with him instead of my old friends because he just moved into a new area. Eventually I lost touch with my old friends, and my old friends made other friends. And I'm starting to get annoyed my best friend, because of stupid arguments, and lets just say he knows how to piss me off. He's pretty much always been like this but I was able to handle it before since I only saw him once a week. Now that I'm with him at school everyday high school life isn't enjoyable. My dad asked me if I wanted to change high schools recently out of nowhere. I haven't told any of my parents about this, and I found it odd that he aked me this. I'm really starting to think if I should go or not, its going to be hard starting over. But I know it can defintely be worth it.
2007-07-08 18:19:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to get back in touch with your other friends--I know a lot of my friends have wandered from our group during the years, but during junior year they all came back. It's a tough year, and you're going to need all the support you can get. So I would say stick with the familiar; changing schools now, when you're so rooted in your current school, would make it quite a bit harder to concentrate on schoolwork and life in general.
2007-07-08 18:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what are you planning to do? Move schools everytime your friend pisses you off? That's not a good reason to change schools. And at this rate, you'll have to change three more times before you graduate. So let me enlighten you. You go to school to get an E-D-U-C-A-T-I-O-N!! So if your prospective new school has a better Educational program than your current, then by all means this is something to look into. If not, you'd be leaving for a totally stupid reason. And guess what? Your annoying friend might just decide to follow you. So what do you plan to do when that happens? Move again??
2007-07-08 18:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm. "difficult to find work"? Really? The country is at 20% unemployment overall, for those without skills, at a young age, the unemployment is closer to 40, even 45%. If you don't have legal status in Spain, you can NOT find work. If you aren't a citizen, it's very difficult. I am assuming you are an AMERICAN citizen, as you don't SAY. And, btw, they expect you to speak properly. Even the most undereducated people know how to use grammar properly. (You can brush up on that, and you can do some improving, while there). It takes ten years to become a citizen. It would probably take longer to get a visa. My guess is, unless you have an independent source of wealth, you won't be able to financially support yourself. Most students go on programs that take money up front, and budget it out to them, monthly, for living expenses. I doubt it's worth risking all your money and life in the US, for an adventure that is almost guaranteed to leave you broke and destitute. Try going to university in the US, and take a year abroad. If you can make contacts for a permanent job, the employers will help you get a visa, and you'll be able to set yourself up, after you graduate. ¡Buena Suerte!
2016-05-17 08:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people you hang out with in high school will 1) determine your performance and what grades you make and 2) how the administration of the school and everyone else perceives you. If you surround yourself with positive people you will be very successful. Is this guy a positive person?
2007-07-08 18:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wherever you go - that's where you are. People are going to annoy you no matter where you go - you just have to let it roll off your back. If it is affecting your studies (I know - hard to remember that's why you are there!) I would consider it - but maybe you can just hang out with some new people. You might up and leave to a new school and still have issues.
2007-07-08 18:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad may be planning something that you are unaware of, such as a move. Don't run away from your problems, but if you think this new school would be a better opportunity for other reasons also, I say give it a shot.
2007-07-08 18:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Changing highschool is a big thing. Many great things come out of it, fresh starts, new friends, new classes, different routine.
Just depends if your ready to have a new start or if your content enough where you are to stay and worl through things.
2007-07-08 18:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could mend the relationship somehow that would be good. Friends shouldn't act immature to other friends like that.
However, it does sound like a message from God =). If you don't accept it you may die.
2007-07-08 18:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by The Question Guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ur life ur choice i wouldn't let a decision like this be decided by strangers
2007-07-08 18:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by NotTheStatusQuo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see if you can patch up your old friends first and if that doesnt work then think about it! do you like your school and are you getting good grades?
2007-07-08 18:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by Nikaroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋