My new boyfriend is MIA?

Question

Ive been dating this new guy for 5 months, hes sweet, caring all around good guy, people like him, I love him. We spend time together he takes me out, and just bought me a new phone. But something happened in his life with the mother of his child an altercation with her bf, now its been 3 weeks since Ive seen him and 2 weeks since weve talked on the phone. He wont answer my calls, emails or text messages. Havent seen him on Myspace in weeks. He emailed me a week ago saying he still loves me, and that he doesnt want to drag me into this mess. But if Im his lady then why cant he come to me? I emailed back saying I love you too its alright... then NOTHING!! No calls no email back. Is he lying to me? This relationship is still new so I dont know where he lives because he just moved. I do know where he works. Why would someone go from on to off in days? Is he hiding something? Im 27 hes in his mid 30's? He even talked about marriage and children. Hes a flake huh??!! What should I do?

Answer 1

You shouldn't love him, thats for sure. But your going to, shoot I'm willing to bet your going to wait, and wait, and wait, and when he calls back, you'll drop everything and run to him. So whats the confusion? He is your purpose right now. So sit back put your life on hold and what for your love to come back. IT's not what your suppose to do, but who does what their suppose to? Your suppose to realize you deserve more then this, that him not atleast giving you an explanation shows how much he really doesn't care if he loses you, that your expendiable. But shoot he'll probly think about you later on, and string you back, nothing left to do but wait.... or love yourself enough to move on... good luck with that...