Ok, me and my gf have gone out for like 3 months, i dont really believe in high school love and my gf does. I realized that i am not really into relationships and i want out. However my gf "thinks she is in love" and says stuff like i dont know what i would do without u and i would do anything for you and like\ all this other stuff. So in that case i feel kind of bad. She is kind of the person who lives in a fairy tale when i am around and i am like lets have fun. I want to break up with her because i want to be single, but i dont want to hurt her feelings because she has been my firend for a while. How should i do this without making a huge mess. and her friend is really dramatic and will get into my face if i say the wrong thing
2007-07-08 11:45:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do it fast and quick dont try to hurt her fellings
2007-07-08 11:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her the truth. You are not ready for a relationship. She may be hurt, but she will get over it. She has a different view of your relationship than you do, and the longer you wait, the harder it will be for her to accept the breakup.
As to her friend "getting in your face", calmly tell her that it is between the two of you, and the friend has nothing to do with it!
2007-07-08 18:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by fire4511 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the whole fairy-tale thing reminds me of myself when i'm with my bf. but anyways, there's not really an easy way of breaking up with her...but maybe you can say "i love you as a person, but i'm too young right now and i would love to try this relationship out in the future, when i'm more mature".
good luck :-]
2007-07-08 18:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by *princess* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her, and don't string her along anymore just to be "nice". she'll appreciate it in the long run. either that or u can tell her that you're gay. haha
2007-07-08 18:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋