2007-07-08 11:47:12 · 9 answers · asked by SAR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My sons friend is 10 and in the same grade ...soon to be 4th.
We had him over one night for a sleep over and I went into the bathroom and there was a pair of big boy underwear with a massive amount of S*** in it!
I was going to take a bath, but after seeing that I threw up.
He had taken them off and left them on my bathroom floor..like I was going to touch the Damned things!
I hollered out the door for someone to come and get their S***y pants out of my bathroom.
He comes in and says..."Sorry."
Needless to say...I called his parents and sent him home!
I agree that there is NO excuse for laziness!
Then I thoroughly cleaned my bathroom...because that is down right disgusting!
As far as help, the only thing I can tell you....like I told this kids parents.... is to send him to a mental health facility and see if they can help. There has to be a "problem" if the child refuses to use the toilet!
Shoot, maybe they are asking for help!
Blessings and luck
2007-07-08 12:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 04:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by faina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it is just laziness. My little brother was raped and had problems where he would poop on himself and not even know it. It was going on for 3 years before any one figured it out and still to this day he has problems. So talk to him and maybe even take him to a pyschiatrist. (sorry misspelled). I hope this helps.
2007-07-08 12:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Christina G 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This kid needs to be seen by a doctor and a psychiatrist in that order.
2007-07-08 16:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by sbyldy 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
are you sure it's lazyness? sounds like something else is going on here. have his doctor talk to him. they can give him the medical reasons why what he's doing, or not doing, is harmful.
2007-07-08 13:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
make him wear his underwear on his head for a few day's, he'll get the message
2007-07-08 12:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Make him clean his pants... I am sure he won't like that and will quit. =]
2007-07-08 12:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
get him some help.
2007-07-08 12:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
smack the sh!t out of that little boy....
2007-07-08 12:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋