do you ever feel like disappearing to a place where no one ever knew you and not tell anyone that you knew.?

Question

this includes anyone, family, friends, etc............

I must be asking some youthful questions, I keep getting accused of being a kid...I know it is all relative of course but I am 39, two teens (one, 15, just got busted for ordering a few porns on ppv, grrrrrrrrrrr) one 13, helpful mostly, a ten month old perfect baby named Heaven Lee (ya I know, I am an athiest), my husband of two years, 29, my 74 yo dad who was diagnosed with severe lung cancer and so I have moved from alaska to oregon to take care of and we are now all in the midst of a move to a larger place that is also closer to hubbies work.

So probably a mid-life crisis thing but I am not sure, it may but be a bit of feeling beyond unappreciated and taken advantage of by these heathens, not my dad and Heaven and mostly not my hubbie, but you know. I did runaway 2 1/2 years ago from everyone and ran smack into a new marraige and then the rest of them found me again, expletive. Maybe I am just crazy, it is what I have been saying all along.

Answer 1

Girl i Feel like that sometimes. I have a 18 month old and a 3 year old. Sometimes i feel i wanna pull my hair out. So when that happens i jus take some time out for myself. Thas when grandma or daddy comes in. i go for a ride or take a long bubble bath things like that, things that calm me down.

Answer 2

Secondlife, World of Warcraft, Wurm Online, Anarchy Online, Ashen Empires, Dark Age of Camelot, Everquest, Lineage, Runescape, Guild Wars, Maple Story, Silkroad, Shaiya, or Gunz The Duel. They're all relatively cheap to disappear into.

Answer 3

Funny i found this question. Here is my story.

I was so depressed today bcoz of the death of my mother last month, my friends went to other states, and my gf left for uni, and my career took a great fall.

My mind was about to shut down, so i took a pack of cigarettes n my wallet, off i go on my bike. I kept going and going for about 2 hours, then i realised i was really lost in this village.

First, i felt that my mind was really peaceful, as if this was a new place for me to be. But after 30 minutes going round and round the same place, i was starting to worry, and this question popped up in my mind: "where the hell am I?"

After about 15 minutes more, I was desperately trying to find a way out and come back home to my dog, my 2 cats and I suddenly wanted to see my family.

It was tough, being in a place where i thought was heaven for me, but I know, this is not my place. I didn't know where I was going, but eventually, I found a way out and saw these familiar buildings.

When I finally got home, I was really grateful. But I was thinking, why? I just came back to a place where there are still many problems and depressing stuff for me. Then I realized, that life is meant to be like this.

There are ups and downs that we have to go through. Since our parents had gone through that stage, why can't we?

Sorry for that really long story, but I wanted to share it with everyone.

Answer 4

Yes! For a long time I have felt that way. Even when I was your age. I am guessing that you are young. I only thought of age because I was thinking about why I want to disapear and how long it took for me to start feeling like that. Like did it take years? was it one thing or a lot of things that happen to make some one want to leave their present life. I have had a lot of things happen to me in my misserable but wonderful life and it seems like if I go where no one knows me then I can pretend that none of those very very unpleasent things ever happened there for I feel no pain from them . also I have done enough things to be ashamed of that makes me want to run too. BUT.... now that I have children and they are not infants but young people who know very well what is going on, I no longer have the choice of pretending anything, so well my answer is yes I feel like that but I cant do it. bummer huh. just love the life you have and try to learn from mistakes and change the things you dont like. Look in the mirror and ask yourself what do I need to do to make things better and good enough to stay right here. because you can run but you cant hide. good luck kiddo.

Answer 5

Do you want to start over, start a new life? How old are you? Are you in trouble, or just majorly pissed with the whole scene? Can you support yourself if you cut yourself off from your family?

I don't see any problem with an adult legally changing their name (SS#?) and starting off in a new place. You may be lonely for a while, but if that's what you want, then, what's wrong with it?

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Answer 6

Yes, there are days i wish that were an option.

Pack up stuff, and move to somewhere where no one would know me.

Problem is, i`m a family person, so most likely i`d not want to let no one know where i am.

Answer 7

Yes. Sounds exciting. I think many people think of doing this, but only a few actually do it. [e-mail]

Answer 8

yes. When I go off to college I plan to go to an ivy league in England where I can start over where no one knows me.

Answer 9

yes all the time but I have nowhere to go I keep imaging this perfect place with grass but I don't know where it is

Answer 10

Yeah, but remember hon, no matter where you go, there you are. YOU are the common denominator here, and you can't run away from yourself.