My mom died during child birth and my da kille himself I have no other relatives but i am only 18 years old. Is it possible for me to adopt my newborn baby sister. I really love her and i don't want them to take her from me. DCFS said they would have to take her but i was wondering is there some way i can keep them from taking her from. if push come to shove i'm taking her and running. Thanks for your help.
2007-07-08 06:16:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is no need for you to break the law hon, you already have some rights. After all, she is your sister and you are 18 years of age. Do you have a job and a way to keep her? These things will sway a judges decision.
Don't adopt her, get gardianship of her. If you adopt her, she becomes your child, but if you are her guardian you can maintain that precious relationship of sisters. Explain to DCFS your plan, to gain guardianship of her. Tell them what you are going to do, get or maintain a job, get your sister on some sort of benefits program where she can be helped financially, and show them what arrangements you have to keep her.
Fight for her, make a good case for why you should have her, but don't try to adopt her right now, that's beyond your reach. Perhaps someday, but not right now.
2007-07-08 06:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if your mother's and your sister's father's rights are voluntarily given up, or involuntarily terminated by a court, can you adopt your little sister. You CAN ask your mom if she can live with you, and you can take care of her. The safety and well being of your sister is the main thing. Not who's her legal parent. Maybe your mom would jump at the chance, if she is overwhelmed, mentally ill, isn't good mother material, etc. Otherwise, you can call Children's Protective Services if your mom is abusive or neglectful. They will investigate, and may allow you to have temporary custody if you are an adult. You can also talk to a school counselor if you suspect abuse or neglect. Good luck, Big Sister!!
2016-05-21 05:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but you have to show that you are responsible enough to take care of her. Do you have a job? Your own apartment? Work with DCFS to find out exactly what they would require for you to be able get custody of her. Also find a Lawyer that does family law that would be willing to take on your case and work for your best interests. This could be a long haul for you though. Good luck.
2007-07-08 06:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Similiar thing's have happened, But DCFS wants the child to have a good home, and is going to be well taken care of, if you can do that and have a job then yes you should beable to, and you are of age too.
Wow that's a really sad story i feel so bad for you.
2007-07-08 06:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I heard of a story where this girl took care of her 3 younger siblings and later became their guardian because the mom wasn't worthy. I'm sure if you state your case to the judge (if it comes to that). You have to have a steady good income, a house/apartment, you need to have a plan for child care because you have to have income. Who will watch the child? Think about what is best for your sister. Can your really give her everything she needs? She is a newborn afterall. Because you love her so much, you need to make the decision that would be best for her.
2007-07-08 06:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good lawyer and fight for her. She belongs with family. To fight DCFS, you're going to need legal help.
I'm SO sorry about your mom.
Running isn't a good idea, but I can certainly understand how you feel. I think it becomes a federal crime to leave the state with a minor if you don't have legal custody of her. You won't do your sister any good at all behind bars.
2007-07-08 06:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't snatch and run..unless you want to end up in prison. are you prepared to give up any life you could have for yourself by taking on the responsibilty of raising a child? you are ONLY 18 years old. your intentions are admirable...but the financial and moral responsibilities for you are tremendous.
I would allow the state to put the baby up for adoption in a very good home that is stable...but tell them you want to be able to keep in contact so that you may tell the baby who you are when she is conscious enough to understand that.
2007-07-08 06:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by booooooooooooby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.adopt.org/
National Adoption Center - Adoption Information and Adoption
2007-07-08 06:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps take this up with people you know, trust and respect, and who you think has common sense...
is there an aunt, uncle or other relative who can take on care of the child (and you perhaps) until something can be worked out?
i think your family needs to stay together. i hope everything works out. please do get advice from people you trust...
2007-07-08 06:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you probobly can If you show you have a stable home for her. I dont suggest running, they will find you and take her away.
2007-07-08 06:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Galinda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋