ok so i'm sure everyone has heard that at least once in your life.... but please tell me what that means.
Same story i've been friends w/ this girl for the past 2 years and about a week ago i finally asked her out. She said she couldn't see us together like that.
Being very good friends for the past 2 years i would think we know each other well enough to go out. We both care about each other (Well i care for her, hopefully she does about me) . And to make everything more complicated... Not only my friends but hers as well said we would make the best couple.
I'm just at the end here and need some advice
thanks in advance
2007-07-08 05:47:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jim D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the spark isn't there for her...well, then it won't become a flame. I'm going through what your friend is going through. Believe me, she feels awful about it, but at least she's being honest with you. Most marriages don't even have that! Be thankful for what you have, and what you'll continue to have! Best of luck!
2007-07-08 05:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dude. You got your answer. I've been here many times. You got the torpedo in the side of your ship. Best to just let it sink. You can fight this all you want but it will get you nowhere, except more pain and misery. Everything's perfect except for....one....tiny...little thing. She doesn't want you. Or if she does want you, she's not willing to do anything about it. 20 years of experience with this tells me you can't do anything about this one either.
My advice? Feel the pain. Mourn the loss of the dream. This will keep you from getting into these situations again. Give it up man. Move on. It sucks. I know. But there's really no other option.
2007-07-08 11:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a male friend from way back in my childhood , he constantly flirts and lets me know that he is very interested in having a relationship with me , we met when i was 13 and he 12 , we are now 43 and 42 , still the best of friends , when i have guy trouble i call him , when he has girl trouble he calls me . we love one another but not in love if you know what i mean , had we ever had a romantic relationship i believe we would not be talking today and be so close
2007-07-08 05:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by rdnckwmn64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Just friends" can mean several things.
1. She's not romantically/phsyically attracted to you and/or she likes someone else "that way."
2. She may be afraid to risk the friendship to date you romantically.
3. She's not interested in any relationship right now.
2007-07-08 05:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Catherine A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to be your girlfriend just because you've known them for a long time.
I've known a lot of guys for a long time... but it doesn't mean I should go out with them... that doesn't make any sense.
You have to have that feeling too... you've gotta have that spark... She just sees you as a friend and nothing more.
2007-07-08 05:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 07:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by wallin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to date all of your friends just because you feel that you know them well and other people think you two look cute together. I am sure this girl cares for you, she just wants to keep it platonic with you. move on.
2007-07-08 05:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by mama2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend for 4 years..i ask himthe same but it felt wierd crossing that line..so im glad we remain friends..and you will see how it will work out in the end....friends last forever.relationship dont
2007-07-08 05:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she doesn't see hersel going out with you, the experience might turn out to be uncomfortable. Maybe she feels that by going out with you, things might get complicated and ruin your friendship. She's not attracted to you in that way.
2007-07-08 05:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means that the person sees you like a friend. yea you may no everything about one another but she just sees you as a person to hangout with not hook up with.
2007-07-08 05:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋