My best friend is always at me to kiss him when we are out!! he knows I like him but the reason I wont kiss him is because he has a girlfriend!
We are both in our early 20s and are really great mates!
I just don't understand why he does this!!
Any Ideas??
We would be out with our group of friends!!! Not just de 2 of us!! He always manages to get me on my own. ie:he wud follow me to the toilet or something!!
Oh we've talked abt this loads of time!! and he knows why i won't kiss him! I've made that perfectally clear!
2007-07-08 03:01:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I believe you still wish to keep him as a friend, yet you want to keep the boundaries between both of you clear.
Well, as a friend, just be honest with him and stay clear when he tries to get you to kiss him. If he continues to push it, then you would want to consider whether this is a true friend worth keeping, and then think about whether to keep your distance away from him (which is also hard, because you do like him).
OR, it could be something that is really going on between the both of you. If that is so, be honest with him that he needs to break his relationship with his girlfriend before he comes to you. That way, you are also being a respectable person, yet giving room for any possible further developments between the both of you.
2007-07-08 03:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him why he wants you to kiss him?? If he is really your best friend he would be honest with you. Talk to him tell him how you feel, and if you think that your best friend relationship can go further than that then go for it but there are consequences....if things dont work out between you guys not only will you end up a boyfriend/girlfrined relationship but you will lose a best friend too. Think about it before making any decision. Is it worth having him as a boyfriend and lose everything if it doesnt work or is it worht it just having him as a best friend.
2007-07-08 03:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by la negrita de Brooklyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing the right thing not to kiss him because he has a gf. He shouldn't want to do that either since he has a gf! Also keep in mind if you take your relationship with him to an intimate level, it will change the friendship. Be prepared for that if you decide to kiss him and then decide to go even further after that which he will probably want to do since he is after you so much to kiss.
2007-07-08 03:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you I wouldn' t kiss him either. For one he has a girlfriend and if he is willing to treat his current girl like this just think what he would do if you two hooked up. Another reason you need to think how this would change you guys relationship and once you take that step there is no turning back so you would have to make sure this is what you want.
2007-07-08 03:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by KEE-KEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that there is a romantic attraction at least on his behalf towards you. Now, if he was to end his relationship, would you feel differently? Perhaps the both of you might discuss this and determine either to remain friends or to enter into a romantic relationship. I wish you well.
2007-07-08 03:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by david42 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but this guy sounds like a creep. he has a girlfriend and he is chasing your tail, not a good sign. I think that he is showing you his true colors. If I were you I would ditch the guy or kiss him and find out if its any good. either way you don't win.
2007-07-08 03:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by JillardG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe he doesn't like his girlfriend because he likes you more. Ask him if he likes you or her more, and then say that you will only kiss him if he breaks up with her. BUT, she will probably break up with him if you kiss him, so either way he will break up. If you dont want him to break up with his girlfriend, then don't kiss him
2007-07-08 03:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from being alone with him. Tell one of your best girl friends the situation and take her everywhere with you. Have her come to the restroom and to get a drink with you and stuff like that. If your forced alone with him, ignore him completely. Act like your alone with yourself, not alone with him. (and btw if he tries to kiss you and succeeds you may want to tell his girlfriend sooner than later)
2007-07-08 03:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Cassieee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, are you sure he doesnt just want your kiss? He doesnt want you, cause asking you to kiss him when hes got a GF would be cheating... i see a red flag. BACK AWAY SLOWLY.
2007-07-08 03:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that he should talk it out with his gf and then once u knew it was ok with her go and kiss 'em.
but ONLY when its ok with her or hes not hers anymore
2007-07-08 03:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋