My pastor's wife tends to dot on me. I think she's in love with me. What should I do: tell Pastor? run?
2007-07-08 02:56:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find a new church to attend and steer clear of the matter.
2007-07-08 03:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want the Pastor...hehehe just kidding. You know sometimes women yes even Pastor's wife like to flirt...just cause they are married to a Pastor and are Christians doesn't mean that women are dead. Sometimes they need to have a little more too. I would ask her out straight. I realize that she holds a position that she should not "show" those feelings, however, sometimes the spirit of Jezebel gets into a woman.
2007-07-08 21:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you. Being a pastor's wife does not change her attraction to some people. She is still human and has her own characteristics.
2007-07-09 05:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by duaneb_59 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her husband about the situation and make sure she is present--if she denies it and her husband does not believe you, then leave that church. Apparently he has been too busy in ministry and is lacking his duty at home. She is looking for attention and someone to spend time with. It is sinful to want another mans wife even though she is coming on to you. You are not a true christian if you are talking like this (she loves me)--Thou shall not commit adultery-- Love is respect...
2007-07-08 13:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think that this woman is in love with you because she do flirt with you? Women do flirt but that is all like what some men do. If this really bothers you,the next time you go to church,talk to her and tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable the "dot" shes doing.
2007-07-08 10:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN 4 DA HILLS. wait r u married??? if u r then tell her 2 beat it. but u dont wanna b the cause of breaking up the pastor and his wife...do u
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2007-07-08 09:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Considering the number of pastors who are perverts it could be that she has no intimate relationship with her husband. In any case you should ignore he and stay out of that situation.
2007-07-08 10:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by dano 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm ok
a. thats creepy
b. talk to your pastor about being uncomfortable with his wife
c. talk to the wife directly
2007-07-08 10:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer, but perhaps your labido says other wise. You now what the comandments read. Ask yourself, where morals lie. I too, was in the same situation. Trust me, you don't want to do something you'll regreat later in life.
2007-07-08 10:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything at this moment....let things be.....
Try to tell her that u r not interested in her (if u really are) by ignoring her....if she is smart she will understand....
Meanwhile if she takes any drastic step tell her straight that u gonna complain this to her husband....
I m sure everythings gonna be just fine....
All the best
2007-07-08 10:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Get Real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋