I am a 38 year old woman. A very young, good looking 23 year old wants to date me. He seems mature and looks older but I am concerned about the years between us. Is 15 years too many?
2007-07-08 02:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by Nunya 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with him once and you'll find out!
As long as he's OK with it and you're not worried about what people will think and say about you, then go for it!
2007-07-08 02:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Danni 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
God no! just depends on what you both want out of it!
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Now, don't be offended but 20 year old guys & later 30's early 40 women have the same thing in common Sex. I've been though it and know few friends that have as well. It can go different ways though. Play with it see if you like it.
Edit....
15 & 23... hmmm come on now.. get out of here wit that...
Joe... did you get ur heart broken from some older women?
2007-07-08 09:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, a lot of older men date younger women.....so I don't see why a woman can't do the same. The important thing is that you are both adults, and neither one of you has a problem with the age factor. Some people will be mean, and say nasty things but don't worry about them. They'd probably say the same nasty things even if you only had a six month age difference.
2007-07-08 09:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mari76 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.The real test is the maturity levels of the individuals. Are you both at the same level of maturity? If not, there will be problems. If so, you can keep growing together. Significant age differences can be abnormal but do not have to be. They happen for all sorts of reasons. They can be very beneficial or harmful… depending on the individuals. If the youngest is a very mature person, it can work. And the older person can mentor and teach the younger a lot of things… and not just about sex. Learning how to make love is an acquired skill. Young men especially need to learn how. Older women can teach that skill because; in general they have that knowledge and the necessary patience. But in general, the risks out weigh the benefits.
2007-07-08 09:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends upon how mature he is/isn't and what you're willing to put up with. Maybe start out by just doing stuff together and hanging out--don't date exclusively. This should give you some idea of what he is like. 23 is very young, but it doesn't mean it can't work--especially if he knows what he wants. Good luck!
2007-07-08 09:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by IceIt71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sounds like there will be alot of differences between the too of you. Try to remeber when you where that age. Wasn't it all about the bar scene, and getting wasted. That is a big gap to cross, but you could teach him alot. Experenced women rule the world.
2007-07-08 09:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by ripstang3000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, when he was born you were already in high school!!! That is a big difference but I guess it couldn't hurt to hang out a little bit and see what would happen. Just let him know that at first you just wanna hang out and see where it goes. Don't make any promises or let him think there is a commitment behind it at first. Good luck!
2007-07-08 09:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by pupluv0410 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. Think 1000 times before you start. Young ones look for pleasure from older women. Its not their fault. Its their age. You can not help much. Better to be away for good of you as well for him.
If you feel that just giving yourself for few times and then letting him to go on his way for an equal ager, you can go with him. Hope you understand what I mean....
2007-07-08 09:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no rules or absolutes. It's a concern, but if the age difference is the only thing that's stopping you, don't let it. Keep in mind that you're both at the height of your sexual drives right now, if you're interested in that!
2007-07-08 09:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by gamblin man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age doesn't matter. i'm 26, my guy is 36. we compliment each other. at first i thought it won't work out in any way. but as i look at us today, im glad i took the risk.
it doesn't matter who is older or who is younger. if you are both sincere, your relationship will work out fine!!!
a relationship is a one way street, you have to unite to meet your goals amidst personal and age differences. the age difference is challenge on how to really reach out for the other person.it also requires a broader sense of understanding and acceptance considering the fact that you were born on different times. but use it to your advantage. make the most of everything. learn from each other, love each other more everyday and you would not notice, you cannot live without each other.
take the risk girl! u would not know it is worth it until u took it!!!
2007-07-08 09:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by zheriamor 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were 68, and he was 53 I would say go for it.
He's only 23- so unless you're just looking for a "fling" I wouldn't take it to seriously.
I don't think there's anything WRONG with dating him, I just have my doubts that he's really ready to settle into a "lifelong" relationship that young. You could be setting yourself up for a fall.
2007-07-08 09:34:49 · answer #11 · answered by crankyissues 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋