one night stands?

Question

I;ve learned through a friend my ex girlfriend is having one night stands. She always accused me of cheating and she was pure, but through my friend, she tells me she was lying and was cheating on you. My ex don't have to many friends. what causes a woman to do this. Is this a mental problem. I hate to see her get sick and hurt. I know you'll say let her go. it's not your problem

Answer 1

Is your friend a trustworthy source of information? You might have to confront your ex girlfriend and ask her directly if she cheated on you when you two were together.

Whether she's had "one night stands" since you've broken up
has more to do with her than you. As a concerned friend you might feel compelled to caution her about the potential consequences of her behavior.

As far as what causes a woman to have one night stands, it depends on the woman. Sometimes it's a self esteem issue.
You weren't clear about why the two of you broke up. Maybe your ex girlfriend feels rejected and is acting promiscuously to try convince herself that she's still attractive to men.

Answer 2

People that have one relationship after another are usually very insecure with themselves and hate to be alone. They use sex as a way to fufill themselves and to fill a void. What causes a woman to do this? Well, some people will do this as a way of getting over someone, while other people just like sex and view sex as something not personal. When someone behaves in such a way, there really is little you can do about it. Well, except protect yourself and anybody that you know to stay away from her. A person that doesn't have many friends is a huge red flag. I would look at it this way...
be lucky that you are not involved with her any longer. Doesn't sound like anyone you could trust or have a serious commited relationship with.

Answer 3

Yes, however until there may be an sincere curiosity within the man or woman that is going additional than intercourse...a second night time stand is frequently under no circumstances as well as the primary whilst the whole lot used to be intriguing and new! If you really liked the man or woman earlier than hand nonetheless, the second night time may also be larger, the third night time even larger......on until approximately the one centesimal night time or so, then it will get ancient.

Answer 4

When girls have one night stands sometimes it is just because they want to and sometimes they want to feel loved and if they go out and meet a guy and have sex with them that they will feel wanted. They want to feel special and they think that having one night stands will make them feel special.. it works for a while but then it fades and thats when they go out and do it again... or they have been hurt so badly that one night stands is the only way to get over it... or they have been doing it for so long that they dont know any better and they think that one night stands is what people are supposed to do to get a guys attention..

Answer 5

Alot of people have one night stands because they want what they cant get.Or they are bored with their current relationship and feel like they need something new.Its hard to tell you what to do.Love is love.Most everyone i know have one night stands and dont tell their partner.The way they see what you dont know wont hurt you.The question is are you in love with this person and do they love you enough to stop doing this and atleast admit the truth to you no matter how good or bad it is.That is love!I would ask her straight out & see what happens!

Answer 6

I would have to say since she is your ex, this would be a hands-off situation. You may have feelings for her safety, but a woman that sleeps around usually has self-esteem issues and that is a deep problem to fix.

She will have to work this out on her own. If you try to interfere, she will see it as butting in on her life and become resentful and shut you out.completely.

Answer 7

so i take it u still like her!

i think shes feeling insecure and confused.

be friends with her and make it clear that she can trust you etc. but i donrt think getting back tiogether is a good idea, at least not untill shes sorted out her life.

make her one of your best friends and frequently treat her. Include her in everything and try to see her most days. Just do matily things, and she wont have time for onne night stands, cos she'll be with you!

GOOD LUCK!!!
xxx

Answer 8

Let me see if I understand...she's single, free to do whatever she wants, and is doing whatever she wants, and you don't like it? Quit being jealous and stay out of her life. A woman does nt have to be "pure", this is 2007 and women can do whatever they want to, when they want to, get used to it.

Men aren't the only ones who enjoy sex, are comfortable with sex and want to have sex. It's not a mental problem when a woman has fun and enjoys herself. You must have a mental problem if you think women should be different than men are.

Answer 9

Your ex-girlfriends problem is that she is seeking attention. You would have to delve into her past (relationships with parents, etc...)to find the piece to that puzzle. The facts are..that is a dangerous way to live (for her) and you should be thanking God every day that you aren't involved with her in any intimate way.

Answer 10

Evidently you still have feelings for her. She chooses to have that type of life style. As hard as it may be for you to sit back and watch her make this type of choice, you need to let her go and if for some reason you decide to try to rekindle your relationship,please use protection.