2007-07-08 02:59:30 · 9 answers · asked by zheriamor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the way to honor is in Marriage-Just like with Jesus, if you truely love someone you commit to them. Marriage is to put it into writing-lots of guys will say they love someone and live in with them yet as someone said to me =
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I agree with "Makemeaspark" "The heart is decietful." Jeremiah, but it is not just the hurting ones that fall for believing a guy when he says he loves you. Sometimes you believe because you believe (in innocence) that truth and lies are obvious. And in your arrogance (or youth) you think you can tell the difference. You trust and are deceived, and there are those who are loyal even after the deception is revealed, out of duty, out of fear, out of a misguided loyalty...wow it still hurts. Sometimes they stay because they feel stupid and worthless and have no where else to turn. They feel like they deserve the punishment of being unloved, because they were untrue to their own moral compass, and unfaithfull to God. So they stay untill they are discarded. 3 Votes 43%
this helped me as raised a Jew to see the deaper truths to believe too=Christian means a follower of the Messiah-who came as a Jew- the believer in Jesus-has power over the mind to control their thoughts, thus when Jesus says to forgive and let Me handle it, or about lust is adultry against God, or hate is murder in the heart, we have the calling to cast down all imaginations that exault themselves against God which brings true peace and joy to our heart in all situations (Philippians 4:4-20).
My Jewish people believe in the comming of a Messiah, and his fulfillment is in Jesus. The laws of Judaism were given specifically to the Jewish people to be kept and to guide them to the promised Messiah.
Isaiah 9:6 the child to be the Son given, the mighty God and the prince of peace..
Isaiah 52:13-53:12 To be the exalted one. To first be marred more than any man, and to lay down his life to make atonement for our sins.
The way I came to know him is by believing what he spoke to us from heaven (Revelation1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to repent of your sins (even one lie) quickly. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock If you hear my word and open the door, I will come in and be your friend."
so I prayed "Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
Its all good and now as a Jew who has come to know Jesus is my Messiah, savior, and best friend giving me joy beyond words and power to live right. And someone said this for me telling them this too=
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Wow that was a great answer :).
have a great day and thanks, David
believe in respect for marriage honor and the good Lord too, David
2007-07-08 04:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other, and want to live together like forever and ever, then go ahead and live together, but do it all the way, marry her/him and be together permanently in marriage. It is the only way to go.. For your heart, your soul, and your peace of mind.. Good Luck and God Bless.
ps: been married 37 years and like good wine, a good marriage gets better through the years.
2007-07-08 10:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the advantages of marriage are purely legal. If you think you will stay together for the long haul, you should really consider marriage. Married couples have legal rights in retirement income and in survivorship when one of you finally dies. For example, if you're not married, your partner could leave all of his/her belongings to the church, a charity or his cousin in Albania. In CA, he can't do that; a spouse can't be disinherited.
If you don't see this as a long term commttment, and you don't consider children an option, do what you want to do.
2007-07-08 10:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by jack of all trades 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I have been happily married for 8 years. We lived together for 3 years before we married. I personally think living together before you get married is a smart thing to do. That way you can really get to know the person.
2007-07-08 10:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married for 33 terrific years. Never lived in. You decide.
2007-07-08 10:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Strawhat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever works best for the couple, I think marraige is over rated, but hey maybe thats just me
2007-07-08 10:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by Gayle L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you mean marriage is bad
2007-07-08 10:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Live in...Its cheaper than divorce when you find out what a jerk he really is!!
2007-07-08 10:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by redy2screm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what u mean living in??
2007-07-08 10:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋