Family & Relationships - 6 July 2007

Im 13, mom makes wear bras w/ much support and coverage, she says I need them. But I don't enjoy them, especially now in the summer. But mom is stubborn. I fought a lot w/ mom over this, got grounded a few times for being disrespectful. Sunday I really lost my temper, got a pair of scissors and in front my mom cut up the bras she gave me. I know this was wrong, apologized but my mom got REALLY mad at me. Punishment: She took me to a lingerie store and got me those bras called long line that covers all of your torso and back have 10 hooks in the back, all of them made of very thich material. I'll have to wear them till Oct 1st, EVERYDAY,They are kinda uncomfortable, much worse than my other bras. I gotta wear all the time, except in bed. Dont you agree this punishment is too harsh and unfair? What do I do now? They make me sweat, I HATE them! Those hooks make me MAD! but I dont know if mom will back off. And if she doesn't back off? How can I live with them, the sweat, and those hooks??

2007-07-06 05:06:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he cares about your feelings, what does that mean? He is just a friend but I feel more for him.

2007-07-06 05:06:02 · 20 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok. My and my boyfirend want to get married, but the problem is i hardley have ANY family that would be able to come due to relationship problems and family issues. He has a large family, but isn't too close to them. It embarress me so much to think that my side of the wedding will have hardly anybody in it. I don't want to elope, i really would like somthing small and beautiful....any ideas?

2007-07-06 05:04:08 · 17 answers · asked by beaniebaby 2 in Weddings

I have been married 4 years and we have been tough times financially and in-law problems but have managed to keep the marriage happy and healthy. We have two kids a girl and a boy. A few months back she started a new job downtown... everything was going well, she would go out for co-workers for drinks on Friday and so on. but lately she started going out twice a week and coming home in the morning. I did some checking and found out she was having an affair with a guy she works with. She still chases him and lies to me about it. She loves me but is not in love with me ( I feel the same way)and I know that this will happen again. I don't trust her.

I want a divorces but would be the first in my family of 45 marriages to get one. Her family is filled with divorce. Also I am broke and can't afford to live apart. I want my kids to grow up in a happy home so should I just let it go or end it???

2007-07-06 05:03:58 · 13 answers · asked by smith99912 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfiend and i have alomost been together for about 5 years in August.. we took a year off in between for better understanding of our relationship and are pretty serious this time. We both are to the point where we NEED to move out.. both 20 and 21.. Any advise on talking to his and thinking aboug getting a house or apartment. I just don't know how to bring it up! Thanks!!

2007-07-06 05:02:09 · 6 answers · asked by Kelli Jo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

problem with being insecure. So am I??? My fiance and I have a married couple that we do things with a few times a month. He has known them for several years (10+) and actually set them up on their first date. I have only known them for about (7) months. We all have a lot of fun together and I enjoy the "friendship" with one exception. The wife's a hugger and she also has VERY big breast. It is also common knowledge that my fiance is a "breast" man. The first time I ever met this woman she commented to me as she hugged my fiance good-bye "he likes to hug me cause he likes to feel my big boobs". When I discussed this with my fiance he just kinda blew it off. He said she has always hugged him from the first time he ever met her and that she was making a joke and I took it out of context. He is very secure and confident and thinks jealousy is silly. He says he has no attraction for her whatsoever and has never seen her as anything but a long time friend. What do you think????

2007-07-06 04:59:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-06 04:58:49 · 43 answers · asked by Aquarius 1 in Singles & Dating

Whenever my babydaddy comes over, I just have his feeling come over me to make-love with him..Even though he did me so wrong!

2007-07-06 04:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay i am getting a divorce after 4 yrs of marriage because of my husbands anger managment issues that turned into physical abuse it was only once but he dislocated my some of fingers and bruised my face.I have a 5 yr old daughter from a prior realationship who never really got along with my husband.My daughters real father has only seen her a few times as a baby but sends her presents and money .She in return sends him her artwork and at present i am setting it up so they can meet and slowly be introduced.However her father and i will be meeting in person a few times before that to talk since he has agreed to help me out money wise for a few months and he wants to work on communication relationship ect with me.Last time i went to see my daughters father we ended up having sex i was married but seperated at the time.Very confused and afraid it might happen again?I do not want to make an emotional mess?

2007-07-06 04:58:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One of my good friends has been going out with a guy for a while........now he wants more. He has changes completely! He can turn it on and off like a tap. How can she stop the relationship without hurting him?

2007-07-06 04:53:52 · 22 answers · asked by wildnmad 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you handle discipline with your children? do you let your partner spank/repremend etc. your child? how has exposing ur partner to your child affected the relationship? What do you do in a situation in which your child is misbehaving and your partner tries to tell you how to handle it but you don't quite agree and keep doing what you usually do?? thing is i'm 24 and my boy is 4. I've dated my fiance for 4 years and now that we're gonna live together we're having problems because he says i don't repremend my child the correct way. I spank my child when i feel i'ts about time but- i don't get on him for every little thing he does. He's quite obedient in general but there are times he'll throw a tantrum if i don't buy him a toy & it's hard to handle this when ur partner wants to spank a child that is not his. How do i handle this? it's really affecting my relationship with my man. I just think that my son has his father and if anyone should spank...

2007-07-06 04:49:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can you be specific? (Don't just say she has to have a great personality because that could mean anything.)

I really want your honest opinions!!!! Thanks everybody!

2007-07-06 04:48:51 · 2 answers · asked by Sunny 3 in Singles & Dating

I get turned on when my girlfriend spits in my mouth. She loves do do it. We were in bed and I opened my mouth a bit and put it close to hers and she did it.

Question is: How is this any different from french kissing or kissing with tongue? You exchange saliva anyway right?

2007-07-06 04:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by Johnny_Jurassic 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girl for 6 months now. She doesn't have a lot of girlfriends and does have more guy friends. I have learned and told her (when we first were getting to know each other) that when a girl says she gets a long better with guys it can only mean trouble. Either her and a guy friend missed around or you will think one of them is a tool. Believe me this has happened. Last night she went out with a guy friend she hasn't seen in 3 1/2 years. They went out about 11:30 and I recieved a txt marked 4:30am that she missed me and can't wait for me to meet this "friend". She works Friday and Saturday nights (bartender) sunday we have plans that do not include this "friend". I think she wants him to hang with us. It will not happen. Am I being a jerk? I know I am breaking my own rule of seeing a girl that has "guy" friends, but I do like her a lot. I remind her that I was her friend once. guys dont want to be friends with girls...they pretend to be to get something else.

2007-07-06 04:43:41 · 11 answers · asked by mickey n 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-06 04:43:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I haven't seen my parents since my wedding, 3 years ago, and just because they insisted. This comes from my teen years. I made mistakes, went trough a somewhat troubled phase and they were too harsh. I messed up but was a good girl.I got a severe punishment, and despite my sincere apologies and promises to chanhe they didn't forgive. I suffered terribly, cause I lost their trust, begged them to trust me again but they said tears and promises weren't enough, I'd have to earn it back. This let me devastated, could never understand how they could be so cruel. It took time to regan their trust and when I did I was so resentful that couldn't see tham as aparents anymore. I got over, found people who trusted and helped me through those terrible days. I even made my parents proud, but we never made up, though they tried. Now, I'm 25, graduated in Biology, married and will be a mom in 1 month. My parents want to come but I dont want to, they will bring sad memories, will reopen wounds.

2007-07-06 04:40:58 · 13 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Family

we knew of eachother but didn't really talk. Then one day we just started talking all of the time. Within 3 months of talking he was already asking me if i'd go out with him,(but not in a romantic way)at least i didn't think.was i stupid?would a guy do this if he wasn't interested or attracted at all?

2007-07-06 04:40:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-06 04:40:10 · 20 answers · asked by Sad mama 25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We got married abroad and invited all the relatives and said if you want to attend and can afford it then please do!!! As long as we were both there and our parents we did not really care who else attended!!
His sister did attend but her mother paid for the ticket. The sister and her other half did not buy us a wedding present. They are getting married in August and they sent an inviatation with a wedding present list - do you think we should but them a present?

2007-07-06 04:39:45 · 39 answers · asked by Babble 5 in Weddings

I'm technically not in an official relationship, so at the moment I'm going on dates with 3 different girls. All of them call me and want to hang out all the time and on a few ocassions I've slept with them. I know that sounds bad, but like I said, I'm not an official couple with any of them, but my best friend tells me that what I'm doing isn't right, so I wanted some opinions.

2007-07-06 04:26:54 · 13 answers · asked by Johnny Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

They seem to be a group of guys that wolf whistle at girls a lot. Why??

2007-07-06 04:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by wildnmad 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a real sick person who I met and tried to help out. For no reason she went totally over to the darkside and for last 2 nights my mom and dad's grave have been trashed. Any good ideas on how to get her to stop?? The Police have been totally worthless about this. It really hurts
to go to the graves and they have been trashed for no reason except to hurt me.
I tell you I will be more careful in who I try to help again.

2007-07-06 04:26:34 · 17 answers · asked by sherry 5 in Friends

im paying for the bridesmaid dresses, do i still have to pay for hair and make up and get my bridesmaids a present?

2007-07-06 04:26:22 · 34 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

2007-07-06 04:26:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married and I have a male friend I've seen via pictures only but only spoken too via my internet group I love him to bits as a friend but he has told me has fallen for me and hopes one day I don't know how to tell him that I love him as a friend only without upsetting our friendship please help thanks xxx

2007-07-06 04:25:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she keeps saying I should get a job and help more round the house. I cant be bothered I just wanna sit around in my pants and watch TV all day. I was hoping to put on a lot of weight and try and eat pizza for breakfast lunch and dinner but thats not possible any more as she wont give me anymore free money. I also have a problem with her sister as i find her really actractive and want to get with her but shes married. I feel like I am in a real problem and I want to get out of this relationship but she pays all the bills and cooks and cleans for me. What should I do??


please only answer if you understand that this is a joke, no haters please!!

2007-07-06 04:20:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-06 04:18:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have seen and answered a lot of these kinds of questions so I thought I would get your opinions.

I am not happy in my marriage (you regulars will know that already). For those of you have are familiar with my posts, you will have a better understanding but I will try to give enough details here. I don't feel loved. My wife was living with her mother still (at age 22ish) when we met. We moved out of her mothers house and have been together ever since (15 years now). Our sex lives had gone from typical (a couple or three times a week) down to only once every 2-3 months. I almost left end of last year. She was always unhappy. Now she seems to be in a better mood most of the time. Sex is up to once a week, but is cold and emotionless. She acts like I matter, but even that feels fake. I am still unhappy and can't talk to her because she takes what I say and uses it to attack me.........more coming.

2007-07-06 04:18:00 · 14 answers · asked by s1lvermidnight 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What makes you fall in love with a woman?

What makes you fall OUT of love with a woman?

Do you believe in romantic love?

Could you love a woman you have sex with on the first date?
Thanks!

2007-07-06 04:17:45 · 7 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy and the last couple of months have been rocky. He has finally decided that he wants to be with me forever. He has asked me to move in and be with him. My parents tell me no and that he isn't worth it. They also want to stick me in therapy for everything that has happened with him. I want to move out and go live with him, but I'm afraid of losing my family. I want to leave but I'm afraid.

2007-07-06 04:17:13 · 4 answers · asked by Kimberly M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships