One of my good friends has been going out with a guy for a while........now he wants more. He has changes completely! He can turn it on and off like a tap. How can she stop the relationship without hurting him?
2007-07-06 04:53:52 · 22 answers · asked by wildnmad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your friend must be a little selfish, 'you have to be cruel to be kind' she is doing neither him nor this fella any favours by staying with him, she must also think of herself and her own feelings and future, it is no good keeping him hanging around if the feelings are not there any more, life is just too short, tell your friend good luck.
2007-07-06 05:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, thatz kinda hard 2 happen....t depends on the rejected side..f he/she was open minded he/she wont be hurt or offended, coz the 2 sides in any relationship should like each other, u cant force any1 2 like u..my advice 2 ur friend is tell that guy that she wants 2 end the relationship but she has 2 tell hm that he is a great guy but she cant control her heart, "the heart wants what t wants"...make hm feel that the bad isnt from hm, but coz there r no attarction...and breaking up with hm doesnt mean that he is a bad guy or anything, but coz sometimes we meet alot of great partners but there no click...u know what i mean...make her say all that but with better order :p and am positive he will accept the breaking up
2007-07-06 12:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Amjad J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't end it without hurting him - but if she doesn't end it, she will end up getting hurt herself. She should tell him she cares for him but she isn't ready for a full commitment or to go any further. Just be honest.
Glad she has a friend like you, it always helps to have someone to talk to.
2007-07-06 12:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when it comes to endin the relationship, it will hurt them
2007-07-06 12:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something horrific to make him stop liking the girl. Flirt and hit on lots of other guys. It'll make him change his mind about the girl.
2007-07-06 12:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple - she can't. Its fact that if one person wants something that the other doesn't the kindest thing to do is to be honest, but it won't stop people getting hurt!
2007-07-06 11:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he turns it on and off like a tap, then she shouldn't worry about hurting him.
2007-07-06 11:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by k8r9i8s8ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very carefully. She just has to tell him that "things" have changed and she does not want to continue the relationship. She may have to tell him why.
2007-07-06 11:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible. Sometimes, in order to be happy, we have to make others UN-happy. But she should get out asap, he'll get over himself. She's hurting herself right now.
2007-07-06 11:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell him that she is not ready to continue the realationship because she has some issues that she has to work through herself and if she can't make herself happy, then how can she make him happy?
2007-07-06 11:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by ♥preciousluv♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋