How come men have to find the need to talk to female so called friends?

Answer 1

Can you elaborate on your question? It's possible for men and women to be friends. There isn't always a physical attraction to the opposite sex.

Answer 2

Men can have female friends just as well as women can have male friends. If you don't trust your husband/boyfriend to talk to other women without cheating on you, maybe you shouldn't be with him in the first place.

Answer 3

You sound bitter and cheated on. Men and women can be friends; it's not impossible. If a man or woman are going to cheat, they'll cheat with anyone, not just a friend of the opposite sex; however, if they're friends, it means they get along, like eachother's company, and maybe have many things in common. If they're hot, unhappy, selfish and willing, then yes, they'll cheat. If they're really unhappy, they'll cheat whether the friend is hot or not.

I can't believe how many insecure women are in the world. Guys, I told you WOMEN WERE INSANE. Jesus, who gets jealous of a friend?

Answer 4

Men have a difficult time understanding women. There is nothing with getting another female's point of view, it may actually help your relationship. Chill!

Answer 5

Gosh...I talk to male friends! Does that mean that you would think I am doing something wrong? Pshaw...unless they're talking sex (with eachother in mind!) then what is wrong with having friends?
You shouldn't want to own your spouse and cut them off from friends in this world...they are supposed to be devoted to you, but that doesn't mean that they can't have friends of the opposite gender without it becoming sexual.
Is it sexual or not? That's the only question that matters.

Answer 6

Men can't talk about alot of things with their guy friends. They feel like it makes them look weak. Female friends tend to be more caring and understanding. Women are just better listeners! The things guys talk to their female friends about are also things they may not want to talk to their gf about for the same reason they don't talk to their guy friends. Men like to look strong for their gf and if they have an issue they may not want to talk to gf about it because they think she will think they are weak.

Answer 7

How come women need to generalize all men

To answer your question.....
Depends on the man, but maybe he just wants to hang around girls who are fun, energetic, thoughtful, intelligent, pretty, caring, and NOT CATTYetc.

Answer 8

I won't let my husband talk to females, yeah, yeah maybe I'm just a jealous person, but we hear from the time we're teens that men and woman can never be "just friends, the sex always gets in the way" It does, I've even tried to have some male friends, but as soon as my hubby's back was turned they tried to move in. I don't have male friends now and he doesn't have female....it just works better that way

Answer 9

Most men get along with women more then they do men.

Answer 10

I feel that men and women can have friends from the opposite sex. If your significant other or spouse knows of these friends and because their friends too----there shouldn't be any problem. Problems occur when your significant other or spouse refuses you to meet this opposite sex friend or belittles the friendship in that he/she makes you feel that it isn't an important relationsip. That's when red flags should go up and you should demand the respect and attention that a spouse is supposed to give you. In my case, my husband befriended a group of women at work. One in particular started to talk to him more and more since my husband has always been a good listener and very compassionate----main reasons as to why I fell in love with him. She had probelms at work and in her marriage. Since my husband likes to help people he felt that he was being a friend on giving her advice about work and with her marriage (giving that guy point of view she needed)Well, I never met this so called friend and was told that it was only a co-worker no need to worry. Well the little asian w_ _r_, (reference to Sir Kermit---bad comment----some asian women and women that are very insecure about themselves are manipulative, selfish and only care about themselves,Asian women only appear to always be able to take care of their man, but its only to get what they want and don't truly care about you----this reference is from my experiences with these women and friendships that I had with them over the years which I am not friends with them anymore)made moves on him, started to take the relationship to a different level. Prostituted herself in her car to show how much she cared for and was thankful for my husbands advice and attention.Well, my insecure,stupid, selfish husband fell for it hook line and sinker--and obviously willing. Well that so-called friend knew about our marriage and knew we have two small children-----she didn't care because she was getting what she needed from the "friendship". Friendships with the opposite sex while your married are very suspicious----unless its been a friendship that started prior to the marriage and its a friendship with both parties---but even then you should really know who your true friends are. You always have to have your guard up and any change in behavior from spouse, start to question and start to investigate cell phone bills, emails and new clothing and question his/her where abouts------the BS that its an invasion of privacy--well your spouse gave up his/her privacy once they crossed the line of friendship. you have every right to look into their private lives since you are paying for this behavior and friendship---through the bills and gifts with the "marriage/household" money, its an invasion to your marriage----time taken away, it steals away from your emotional bound and your very own marriage bound. If he/she states that they need to go out, ask where they are going, ask to go with them or at least have them take the kids with them. If they refuse and pick a fight-----then that friendship that your uncomfortable about is more than just a friendship. Then a choice will have to be made by you first---know what you want----then confront them and ask what they truly want, then go from there.