2007-07-06 04:58:49 · 43 answers · asked by Aquarius 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course its not. the only time for you to loose your virginity is when you feel 100% sure that its what you want. just because you havent felt lk that doesnt make it a bad thing. its a great thing to hear that there are people out there who are waiting for the right person or time and havent just jumped in bed with the first guy who shows an interest.
you should be proud of the fact that you have remained true to what you want to do, im sure that many girls would envy you having jumped into things too soon. this just means that your first time will be all that more special.
2007-07-06 05:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it really doesn't matter whether one is a virgin or not- not everyone has met the right person at some arbitrary age like 20.
Some people choose to be celibate, others try bed-hopping as an olympic sport, and most people fall somewhere in the middle. It takes all kinds to make this world go round...
2007-07-06 05:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Proto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not!!
my husband was a virgin at the age of 28. he kept his standards high and it made me feel really good that I was the one true love of his life. I was not a virgin when we married which he had no problem with. He proved to be an excellent lover.
I say it's a smart thing to do in these days - you could pick up stuff you can't get off with clorox if you don't keep yourself in check and wait for the right one
2007-07-06 05:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by sugarpie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I was up until a couple months before I turned 20. There's nothing wrong with that. Better a virgin at 20 then a whore at 12
2007-07-06 05:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? I think it's a good thing now a days. That's saying a lot about yourself. Are you a virgin because you choose to be? or Are you a virgin because you can't find anyone who wants you. I'm not meaning this to be mean so don't take it the wrong way. If you're waiting for that special person and marriage-that's magnificient. Anyone should respect that...
2007-07-06 05:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ericka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rather, it's a good thing. I'm in the same boat as you, and trust me, if you've lasted this long, you are in good shape. Sex is overrated. On TV it looks great, but TV is for entertainment only, and does a lousy job of portraying what happens most of the time. Sex makes things complicated between people, and is best when you are married to someone. I think that when a couple has sex before marriage, and they wind up getting married, it totally destroys the point of the honeymoon, making it a lot less special than if they had agreed to wait.
2007-07-06 05:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, and I am a virgin at 20.
2007-07-06 05:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by KS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not bad, it's great! I'm only 18, yet I had the urge to give up my viriginity at 15 and several other times after that. I realize now that I don't need to be in a rush for all that, and when it happens it'll happen, and I feel that you'll be glad that you waited, because you'll have finally found that someone you want to lose it too,not just some random guy.
2007-07-06 05:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Brit B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you! i'm 20 and a virgin as well, and i've been dating the same girl for two years and change. stay strong! save it for the right person, and you'll be glad you did! there's nothing wrong with virginity, and frankly, the world could use more people like us, instead of these kids tossing away their most precious possession at 12 or 13 these days.
2007-07-06 05:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, thats awesome that you are still a virgin! I'm still a virgin and I'm 21. Me and my boyfriend are saving ourselves for eachother. And don't think once your with someone that you really like that you can loose it then, even if your going to get married anyways, save it all for the honey moon, after all, that is what it is meant for. Keep going girl!
2007-07-06 05:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋